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This week
I'm busy listening to Beyoncé, who hopes that her new album inspires us all to "release the wiggle." I'm ready to comply, so let's get straight on to the links. More movement, fewer words.

I'm reading
"Ono’s body, my body as I sat at my computer watching hers, is a repository for unplanned interactions, for unintended consequences — for performances of all kinds." Julia Cooke on watching Yoko Ono's "Cut Piece" in post-Roe America.

Alex Sujong Laughlin on the pressure to "sell out" in order just to have a financially stable life. Another option: Literally selling shares in ~yourself~.

"I don’t know what my father thought when I could no longer communicate with my Mandarin-speaking grandparents. Or when I begged to stay home while he and my mother made their weekly 40-minute drive to San Francisco for groceries — fish plucked from murky tanks and leafy heads of jiè lán, a bitter Chinese version of broccoli. Now on the receiving end of my daughter’s withering looks, I imagine he felt rejected." Connie Chang on not passing assimilation on to her children.

The cloud, where we keep so much of our digital detritus, is not placeless. All this data is stored in Iceland and Singapore and the Atacama Desert, and—newsflash!—the whole infrastructure is maintained by humans. Steven Gonzalez Monserrate, a "cloud anthropologist," writes about the lives of data-center professionals.

Why Instagram feels so unsatisfying lately, and the seemingly endless pivot to video.

It's dangerous to be a pedestrian in the United States, and it's getting worse. Marin Cogan figured out how walking became a potentially deadly activity.

John Paul Brammer with an expansive, immersive read on the history of life on this planet, speculative biology, and "humanity's elliptical highs and lows."


Pie chart
How are we releasing the wiggle? 30% Windows down, volume up; 25% 2.5 glasses of white wine and half a joint; 15% A retro jello dessert; 20% Spanx in the garbage
The Wiggle Release Pie
 

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I’m looking & listening
New work from Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter, naturally. Here's some background on the samples and production. Also! There's a lovely new song from Cocteau Twins' Elizabeth Fraser.

A moment
A person wears a costume of a giant oyster shell with a pair of lips in the center and eyes all over it. It's grayish-brownish with rippled ridges in concentric circles, the eyes nestled among the ridges. On either side, two hands give a thumbs-up.
I know people think that Pearl the oyster mascot is terrifying, but to me they are the height of fashion. Schiaparelli energy! I'm adding them to my style moodboard. Two thumbs up.

I endorse
Girls' Night In compiled reader suggestions for dividing up household chores. What I love is that each of these tips comes with context about the people who are sharing this labor, because what works for one household doesn't necessarily work for another.

Events
Aug 17, virtual: I'm in conversation with Nona Willis Aronowitz about her new book, Bad Sex: Truth, Pleasure and an Unfinished Revolution.

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Older messages

Rough estivate

Friday, July 22, 2022

Surprise me View in browser July 22, 2022 Paul Klee, detail from Steinwüste (Stone Desert) (1933) This week It's no coincidence that, during this week of record-breaking heat, I learned the term

The sweet relief of being a brief speck!

Friday, July 15, 2022

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A silly little email

Friday, July 8, 2022

Surprise me View in browser July 08, 2022 Agnes Giberne's The Story of the Sun, Moon, and Stars (1898) This week Two quotes I am re-reading, hoping to etch them into my brain: "Remember that

Affirmative visions

Friday, July 1, 2022

Surprise me View in browser July 01, 2022 The ceiling of the Wiltern Theater in LA, where I saw some music and found some respite this week. This week Other people said it better this week, so straight

Shrugging with rage

Friday, June 24, 2022

Surprise me View in browser June 24, 2022 a young white woman in a pink dress leans back against three people who are supporting her, a pillow beneath her head Pietro Longhi, The Faint (1744) This week

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