Daily Money - TikTok is slowly making me go broke

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August 2, 2023 • Issue #200
Dollar Scholar

Hi y’all —

Help!

I’m being followed!

By bras!

For the past few weeks, my TikTok feed has been absolutely inundated with videos of women in their 20s raving about Alexander Jane crop-top bralettes. I’m not exaggerating when I say they’re EVERYWHERE. I’ve probably seen over a hundred clips of creators promoting them: the colors! The styles! The padding! Oh my.

The bras are all being hawked through TikTok Shop, a new feature in the form of a button that appears right above the caption on each video. When I tap it, I’m taken to a virtual store where I can order the bras, enter my shipping address and pay without ever leaving the TikTok app. It’s so easy it’s scary.

Surprisingly, there's not a lot of information online about TikTok Shop or its consumer protections. I’m curious: Is TikTok Shop legit?

I got in touch with TikTok itself to learn more about the service. According to the company, TikTok Shop is very much still in a development phase. It soft-launched in November and moved to beta testing this past April.

Since its inception in 2016, TikTok has proven to be so much more than a silly dance app — it’s a business powerhouse where users love to discover, review and share products. (Need proof? The hashtag #tiktokmademebuyit has over 64 billion views.)

TikTok says merchants are vetted before they can launch on TikTok Shop, and once they’re live, they must follow a set of guidelines that prohibits fake, fraudulent or misleading content. When I make a purchase, the company collects my data “to provide our shopping features and facilitate the purchase and delivery of products, goods and services,” according to its privacy policy.

But TikTok doesn’t actually handle the payment itself — it uses the third-party services PayPal and Stripe to process the transaction.

someone on tiktok is selling muppets themed taylor swift posters and when i tell you i’ve never gone to someone’s etsy shop faster-

Thankfully, PayPal and Stripe are considered relatively safe; they both use encryption to guard my financial data. TikTok also claims it doesn’t store my personal information after I buy an item.

Even so, Don Grant, a certified financial planner, says to proceed with caution.

“Those who post on TikTok want something from you,” he points out. “The TikTok platform wants something from you. If that ‘something’ is of value, viewers may only know it once it’s missing.”

Here’s the rub: TikTok takes a cut of shop sales from merchants, so it has a vested interest in getting me to shop — and splurge — in the app. The company has big plans for expansion, too. The Wall Street Journal reported last month that the social platform is gearing up to launch a marketplace called the TikTok Shop Shopping Center. The Atlantic wrote that “TikTok’s turn to e-commerce, in theory, has the potential to be massive, capable of competing with the likes of Amazon.”

The TikTok Shop interface is so smooth that "you can basically click on something and buy it in a matter of seconds," shopping expert Trae Bodge tells me. It reduces the pain of paying, a behavioral economics concept that refers to the unpleasant feelings a person gets when they spend money. (Remember Issue #143, when we talked about how transacting in cash affects you psychologically?)

That "pain" is important because it regulates people’s desire to buy stuff. When it goes away — say, because I’ve seen 50 increasingly convincing bra videos and the button to buy one is right there — so is that self-regulation.

“Because of the ease of shopping, people don’t take the time to read reviews or look for ways to save more,” Bodge says. “That ease is a gateway for potential overspending, or less informed spending, on the general internet.”

She recommends slowing down and pausing whenever possible. Sure, TikTok Shop might be convenient, but it means I might miss out on discounts and coupons offered by other vendors elsewhere online. I just need to take the time to do some research.

Before mindlessly throwing things into my cart on TikTok Shop, Grant suggests I ask myself two crucial questions: 1) “Do I really need this?” and 2) “Is there another platform that I trust from which I can purchase the same product or service?” The answers will guide me.

The bottom line
(but please don't tell me you scrolled past all of my hard work)

TikTok Shop is relatively safe from a cybersecurity perspective, but it’s a slippery slope in terms of overspending. I should understand these dangers and try to rise above the temptation, according to Grant. Or, for the sake of my budget, maybe I should avoid it entirely.

“Delete the app and go play kickball,” he says.

Over It
via Giphy

Receipt of the week
check out this wild celebrity purchase
Michael B Jordan
via Instagram

Rapper Drake and actor Michael B. Jordan just invested in a Brooklyn pickleball team, capitalizing on a trend that has also picked up such backers as Tom Brady and Kevin Durant. “It’s a great way to get out of the house, but I’m coming to win,” Brady said on Instagram after his own investment in 2022. “I’m coming to dominate the sport. Pickleball — let’s [expletive] go.”

Internet gold
five things I'm loving online right now
1
Does an emoji hold up in a court of law? Apparently, yes: In Canada, a judge ruled recently that a farmer who texted a grain buyer a 👍 in 2021 was, in fact, agreeing to the terms of a contract (not just acknowledging receipt of it). “This case won’t definitively resolve what a thumbs-up emoji means,” one expert told the New York Times, “but it does remind people that using the thumbs-up emoji can have serious legal consequences.” 🤔
2
Can someone make this and then send me a slice or five? Thanks!
3
I loved this roundup of New York’s top brewery cats, whose entire job is to lounge around, be cute and scare off rodents with their sheer presence. There’s Gasket, a kitten who “currently has no job at the moment other than bringing joy to all who cross his path,” and Marlon, who loves “the music and chaos of a good party.”
4
Baby capybara. That is all.
5
Need to get something done? Wave a wand and magically put yourself into productivity mode with Hogwarts-themed ambient music mixes on YouTube. I think this is my new favorite music genre??

401(k)9 CONTRIBUTION
send me cute pictures of your pets, please
Sonny
via Leslie Lewis
This is Sonny, a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Sonny bought this towel while awww-nline shopping.

On a sappy note: This is the 200th (!!!) issue of Dollar Scholar, an accomplishment I’m extremely proud of. Dollar Scholar is a labor of love, and I could not have done it (200 times!) without you.

Thank you for your support — I cannot express how grateful I am that y’all subscribe, read, reply, point out my mistakes, share your money experiences, email in pet photos, send me links about the Jonas Brothers and so much more. <3

I'm excited to continue figuring out personal finance with each and every one of you.

See you next week.

P.S. Last issue about tipping etiquette really inspired some great replies! Two of my favorites: Scholar Heather told me she generally tips when an employee does something that she couldn't or won't do for herself — like carry heavy bags to the car. And Scholar Crista actually owns a salon, so she's an expert! She says that if she thinks someone overtips, she tries to give some back (but is wary of offending them... and occasionally takes their tipping history into consideration when trying to decide whether to squeeze a customer in). 

P.P.S. Have you purchased anything from TikTok Shop? What’s your most-used emoji? Do you have a favorite issue of Dollar Scholar? Send celebratory Champagne and confetti to julia@money.com. You may see your response highlighted here in the next email!

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