269 / ’Tis the season... for tending to the inner garden of the soul

Our modern skulls house a stone-age mind.

– Leda Cosmides

Featured artist: Matt Chinworth

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Welcome to Issue 269!

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While summer is in full swing here in the southern hemisphere, friends and family on the other side are hunkering down for The Season of Grey. I love seasonal change, but I don’t particularly miss the short, colourless days of northern winters.

Except for the somewhat forced cheerfulness around Christmas, there is an infectious melancholic mood that’s writ large in people’s faces. Winter is something to overcome, to get through and put behind you, until, at last, the warmth and light of spring delivers that long-awaited relief. But what if we embraced that winter gloom instead of fighting it?

Maria Popova, drawing from various poets, writers and philosophers, asks us to consider winter “as the season for tending to the inner garden of the soul”. Quoting author Katherine May, she describes the idea of wintering as an opportunity to catch up with the sadness we tend to put aside throughout the year in order to get on with life.

“‘[Since childhood] we are taught to ignore sadness, to stuff it down into our satchels and pretend it isn’t there. As adults, we often have to learn to hear the clarity of its call. That is wintering. It is the active acceptance of sadness. It is the practice of allowing ourselves to feel it as a need. It is the courage to stare down the worst parts of our experience and to commit to healing them the best we can. Wintering is a moment of intuition, our true needs felt keenly as a knife.’

“Like happiness – which, as George Eliot well knew, is a skill we incrementally master as we grow older – sadness, May reminds us, is also a skill: There are self-punishing ways to be sad, and self-salving ways to be sad. In skillful wintering, we learn the difference between the two.”

With that in mind, I’m bowing out of 2023, hoping that – as May describes it – you can befriend this cyclical rhythm of your inner life and emerge from the coldest seasons of the soul not only undiminished but revitalised. – Kai

PS: Thanks to Lauren for bringing this piece on wintering to my attention. And thanks to all of you for yet another wonderful year – 50 issues – of Dense Discovery! I’m taking my usual end-of-year two-week break and will be back in your inbox on January 9th.

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Apps & Sites

Notabli →

Privately share family photos

Notabli provides an ad-free space where you can add photos, videos, quotes, notes, and audio clips of your kids and then share them securely with family or close friends. All the media added is automatically organised, making it easy to find them later by kid, date, and location. Connected family members get email updates and can comment or like items you post. There is also the option of printing your favourite photos.

Tabliss →

Beautiful new tab screen

This browser extension (Chrome, Firefox, Edge) makes your new tab screens pretty and more functional: choose between background photos or colours, then add weather conditions, a clock, quotes, quick links and more.

Minutes →

Async messaging

This little MacOS app lives in the menu bar and allows remote teams to send asynchronous voice or video messages. Larger teams would need an app with more bells and whistles but for small teams or even a just a couple of people working from different locations, Minutes would come in handy.

Timbre →

Sleeps sounds & analytics

There are tons of apps offering ‘sleep sounds’ – music or sounds that can help you fall asleep. This app connects a sound catalogue with your Apple Health data to find the sounds that yield the best sleep results. (I’m as intrigued by it as I am sceptical. Ha!)

 

Worthy Five: Spencer R. Scott

Five recommendations by biologist, regenerative farmer and climate writer Spencer R. Scott

A concept worth understanding:

Solarpunk is a movement that recognises, in a world saturated with dystopian stories, the essential need for positive, attractive futures shown through fiction, art, and media. As a counterpoint to cyberpunk or steampunk, solarpunk seeks to wed us to a breathtaking vision of civilisation where technology works in service of thriving ecologies and shared abundance, so that we go out and make that vision reality. I think it’s essential to understand this concept because it is a potent tool in galvanising a generation with little hope for the future.

A video worth watching:

Dear Alice is one of the best examples of the solarpunk aesthetic out there. The story behind the video itself is pretty solarpunk. This video was originally a Chobani commercial that someone ‘decommodified’ by removing all product placement and single use yogurt containers, which, to be fair, seemed very out of place in an otherwise beautiful conception of the future.

An Instagram account worth following:

On the surface Nature is Not Metal might appear like another cute animal meme account. However, the creator has a very specific but subtle purpose: re-enchanting our vision of the world. Look at the world through his lens, see it recoloured with moments of beauty, love, and connection. In a world that often succumbs to moments of pessimism, as evidenced by the viral idea that ‘humans are the virus’, this Instagram account is here to remind you of the beauty of the animal world – humans included.

A question worth asking:

‘What does it mean that the earth is so beautiful? And what shall I do about it? What is the gift that I should bring to the world? What is the life that I should live?’ – from Mary Oliver’s Long Life. Asking this question supposes you agree with its premise: that the earth, in its simple undeniable beauty, asks of us to respond in kind. This requires two things: eyes to see the beauty; and a sense of responsibility to that beauty that can only come from the gratitude of being alive. Read it again and again.

A book worth reading:

I was never the type of person that would recommend an economics book... but when the world starts falling apart you start looking for answers. Doughnut Economics by Kate Raworth has many; it should be required reading for anyone who took an economics class in the past 60 years. There is so much damage to undo, and this book will help rewire our brains toward an economics, a politics, and a culture that is based in reality and not the tenets of capitalism which have panned out to be little more than cultural myth.

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Books & Accessories

The Age of Magical Overthinking →

Notes on modern irrationality

Writer and linguist Amanda Montell argues that in the modern information age, our brain’s coping mechanisms have been overloaded, and our irrationality turned up to an eleven. This leads to ‘magical thinking’ – cognitive biases that attempt to restore agency amid chaos. “Think of the conviction that one can manifest their way out of poverty, stave off cancer with positive vibes, thwart the apocalypse by learning to can their own peaches, or transform an unhealthy relationship to a glorious one with loyalty alone.”

Blockchain Radicals →

How capitalism ruined crypto & how to fix it

I’m one of the many people that find the potential of crypto and the blockchain appealing on a theoretical level. In practice, both have become synonymous with unbridled capitalism. This book attempts to show us how crypto can be used beyond individual profit and towards collective autonomy. “Covering everything from how Bitcoin saved WikiLeaks to decentralised finance, worker cooperatives, the environmental impact of Bitcoin and NFTs, and the crypto commons, it shows how these new tools can be used to challenge capitalism and build a better world for all of us.”

 

Overheard on Twitter

Best voting advice: Voting isn’t marriage. It’s public transport. You’re not waiting for ‘the one’. You’re getting on the bus. And if there isn’t one going exactly to your destination, you don’t stay home and sulk. You take the one that’s going closest to where you want to be.

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Food for Thought

As a psychiatrist, I’ve seen how chasing happiness leads to misery →

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A great complementary read to the piece on ‘wintering‘ I mention in the intro: psychiatrist Neel Burton argues that the pursuit of happiness is misguided. Instead, Burton suggests that accepting the inevitability of pain and suffering in life and learning to navigate life’s challenges can lead to a greater sense of contentment. “The difficulty with conceptualising happiness is made worse by the simple fact that each of us knows very little about the miseries of others – oftentimes even if they are close others – because it is unpleasant and impolite to talk about horrible stuff in most social situations, and because disclosing failures and humiliations can seem to threaten one’s social image. This distorts the perception of what constitutes an average level of happiness. The advent of social media, with all its shallow fun and joyful narcissism, seems to have exaggerated this distortion.”

Should we try to be more self-sufficient? →

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I really appreciate this short post by Tom Greenwood (who runs a creative agency) on the idea of self-sufficiency and how entrepreneurship fits into this concept. I specifically loved this paragraph: “Perhaps then the red herring in self-sufficiency is the term ‘self’. What we should be aspiring towards is not to be truly independent and live alone in the woods, but to develop personal capability and community sufficiency, in which we contribute to a shared effort to build resilient, caring communities whose focus is on production to meet needs, rather than consumption to meet wants.”

Why stop at the four-day workweek? →

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While studies on the effects of the ‘four-day workweek’ show pretty impressive results, this piece makes a great point: these benefits still don’t change the power dynamics between employees and employers. “The deeper issue is that convincing companies to adopt four-day weeks does little to change the balance of power between workers and employers. Left unchanged, the negotiation over how many hours should constitute ‘full-time’ would continue being held in the boardroom, where workers and their interests are largely without representation, and given today’s hampered labor movement, without much influence. ... Without more bargaining power, leisure will always have to justify itself in terms of productivity, placing a cap on how far the leisure agenda might go. With more power, leisure could break free from the hold of economic logic, expanding people’s freedom to lead a wider variety of lives.”

 

Aesthetically Pleasing

Working on land and sea, artist David Popa creates giant ephemeral murals using chalk and charcoal. (via)

If you enjoy travel photography, consider giving Dimitar Karanikolov a follow on Insta. His work offers a nice mix of typical (stunning) travel photos with quirky and unexpected shots that make you look twice.

Enjoy the ultra-realistic sculpture art by Håkon Anton Fagerås who creates “a technically refined idiom in clay, marble, or various alloys, to create figures that exist in an atmosphere of suspended time”.

I’d love to use PP Pangaia in an editorial design, with its beautiful fluid curves that “inhabit the gentle contours of leaves, riverbanks, and mountain slopes – capturing the joyful, harmonious connection between type, texture and terra firma”.

 

Notable Numbers

280

Over 280 million electric mopeds, scooters, motorcycles, and three-wheelers are displacing four times as much demand for oil as all the world’s electric cars at present.

208

Livestream shopping has become a mainstay of Chinese e-commerce. On Douyin, TikTok’s Chinese sister app, consumers bought $208 billion worth of goods in 2022. One of China’s most famous e-commerce influencers, Austin Li, once sold 15,000 lipsticks in five minutes.

18

Paris intends to triple parking charges for large SUVs in order to push them out of the city and limit emissions and air pollution. If successful, the cost of on-street parking for SUVs will rise to €18 ($20) an hour. The prices will apply to vehicles weighing more than 1.6 tonnes with a combustion engine or hybrid vehicles, and more than 2 tonnes for electric vehicles.

 

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268 / The waning days of the craft of coding

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265 / Sedated by consumerist self-care

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264 / Changing the story from consumer to citizen

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