Strategies for becoming less distracted and improving focus | Nir Eyal (author of Indistractable and Hooked)
Brought to you by Vanta—Automate compliance. Simplify security | Jira Product Discovery—Atlassian’s new prioritization and roadmapping tool built for product teams | Teal—Your personal career growth platform — Nir Eyal is the author of two best-selling books, Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products and Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life. He writes, consults, and teaches at the intersection of psychology, technology, and business. His books have sold over 1 million copies in more than 30 languages; he has taught at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business and its Design School; and he has started and sold two startups since 2003. In our conversation, we discuss: Some takeaways:
Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Overcast, and YouTube. Find the transcript for this episode and all past episodes at: https://www.lennyspodcast.com/episodes/. Today’s transcript will be live by 8 a.m. PT. Where to find Nir Eyal: • X: https://twitter.com/nireyal • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nireyal/ • Website: https://www.nirandfar.com/ Where to find Lenny: • Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com • X: https://twitter.com/lennysan • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/ In this episode, we cover: (00:00) Nir’s background (04:20) How to become less distractible (07:43) Understanding distraction and traction (12:52) The four steps to becoming indistractable (13:53) Mastering internal triggers (18:49) Surfing the urge with a 10-minute timer (23:20) Making time for traction with a timebox schedule (25:02) How to turn your values into time (28:36) Booking deep work time (29:22) Making pacts to prevent distraction (31:00) The problem with to-do lists (34:31) The drawback of deadlines (36:08) Distraction is an emotion regulation problem (39:54) Hacking back external triggers (45:03) Preventing distraction with pacts (48:18) Specific tools to hold you accountable (53:42) Managing emotions and discomfort (56:37) Taking responsibility and being high-agency (01:00:09) Becoming indistractable at work (01:05:04) Schedule syncing to align with managers (01:09:36) We are not as hooked on technology as people think (01:16:00) Life purpose and personal responsibility (01:17:38) Lightning round Referenced: • Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Indistractable-Control-Your-Attention-Choose/dp/194883653X • Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products: https://www.amazon.com/Hooked-How-Build-Habit-Forming-Products/dp/1591847788 • Dorothy Parker’s quote: https://twitter.com/nireyal/status/1472280598723108866 • “Writing is bleeding” quote: https://www.hemingwaysociety.org/quotation-controversy-writing-and-bleeding • The Pomodoro Technique Explained: https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryancollinseurope/2020/03/03/the-pomodoro-technique/ • Timeboxing: Why It Works and How to Get Started in 2024: https://www.nirandfar.com/timeboxing/ • Using your working time well - Issue 22: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/time-management-issue-22 • All-In podcast: https://www.allinpodcast.co/ • Nir’s post about “the planning fallacy”: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/nireyal_why-do-tasks-always-seem-to-take-longer-than-activity-7137440438939959297-XIUB/ • How the Ancient Greeks Beat Distraction: https://www.nirandfar.com/tantalizing-distractions/ • Jeremy Bentham: https://iep.utm.edu/jeremy-bentham • An overview of Sigmund Freud’s pleasure principle: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/nursing-and-health-professions/pleasure-principle • The Matrix “There is no spoon” scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAXtO5dMqEI • Outlet timer: https://www.amazon.com/Century-Indoor-24-Hour-Mechanical-Outlet/dp/B01LPSGBZS • Forest app: https://www.forestapp.cc/ • Focusmate: https://www.focusmate.com/ • Have We Been Thinking About Willpower the Wrong Way for 30 Years?: https://hbr.org/2016/11/have-we-been-thinking-about-willpower-the-wrong-way-for-30-years • We Need Social Antibodies to Fight the Disease of Distraction: https://nireyal.medium.com/we-need-social-antibodies-to-fight-the-disease-of-distraction-51f9187be016 • The Mere Presence of Your Smartphone Reduces Brain Power, Study Shows: https://news.utexas.edu/2017/06/26/the-mere-presence-of-your-smartphone-reduces-brain-power • Leading in Tough Times: HBS Faculty Member Amy C. Edmondson on Psychological Safety: https://www.hbs.edu/recruiting/insights-and-advice/blog/post/leading-in-tough-times • If Tech Is So Distracting, How Do Slack Employees Stay So Focused?: https://www.nirandfar.com/slack-use/ • Managing up: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/managing-up • Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/ • FitBot: https://www.fitbotapp.com/ • Paulo Coelho’s quote: https://twitter.com/paulocoelho/status/416264984188825600 • Alchemy: The Dark Art and Curious Science of Creating Magic in Brands, Business, and Life: https://www.amazon.com/Alchemy-Curious-Science-Creating-Business/dp/006238841X • The Experience Machine: How Our Minds Predict and Shape Reality: https://www.amazon.com/Experience-Machine-Minds-Predict-Reality/dp/1524748455 • Empire of the Sun on Prime Video: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Sun-Christian-Bale/dp/B001N3JY82 • Sesame grinder: https://www.miyacompany.com/450-014-450-014 • Muji pens: https://www.muji.us/collections/pen-pencils Production and marketing by https://penname.co/. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email podcast@lennyrachitsky.com. Lenny may be an investor in the companies discussed. Invite your friends and earn rewardsIf you enjoy Lenny's Newsletter, share it with your friends and earn rewards when they subscribe. |
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