When Babies Grow Up, They Become Neighbors
I was in America Magazine recently—online and print!—writing a Catholic case for being YIMBY/pro-housing/whatever you’d like to call it. My argument is simple: American politics tends to silo concerns about the family on the political right, and about housing on the political left. But if we value actual, real-life babies and families, and we want society to value marriage, etc. etc., we have to make it so that, in the real world, people can do those things. And housing is a huge part of facilitating these things in the real world.
I write a pretty familiar (to many of you) argument for allowing new housing growth in general, but with an emphasis on the fact that the physical form of a neighborhood we might associate with “good to raise a family” doesn’t mean very much if the average family can’t afford such a place. I write that while we can certainly feel frustration with traffic, or a sense of crowdedness, the sentiment that “there are too many people” should be closed off to us. The latent Malthusianism in a lot of NIMBY rhetoric is misanthropic. It opposes housing because it opposes people. Most people don’t subscribe to such a view. But a lot of things people say implies it. And look—that feeling of being trapped in a mobbed parking lot is pretty frustrating. The Malthusian idea is tempting. But if we always put the needs of real people front and center, if we have our priorities straight, that temptation has less of a foothold. I raise a famous passage from Edmund Burke, the conservative political philosopher and Anglican. His conception of the state strikes me as very much aligned with the spirit of Catholic communitarianism:
I think of city-building as a great and dignified enterprise: the work of building and maintaining the places that form the everyday settings of our lives. Conceptually, we broke with that in the 20th century, under urban renewal. I’ve come to see that break as something like a schism. And I’ve come to see mending that break, picking up that old project of urbanism, as almost akin to taking part in a secular liturgy of sorts:
In a previous piece here at this newsletter, I took this idea even a little further, and this bit got some attention on social media, so I’ll share it here too:
This might all sound a little abstract. And in a sense it is: I’m not advocating a specific policy here, and obviously this is one of those areas where Catholics are free to debate and disagree. The Pope has never made a pronouncement on zoning reform or car dependence, per se. But the spirit of Catholic social teaching, its communitarianism and its emphasis on the family, leans toward the body of policies and attitudes we think of as “pro-housing.” I don’t blame ordinary people for disagreeing, or thinking they disagree—love the NIMBY, hate the NIMBYism. At the end of the day, these issues are not abstractions:
If that isn’t enough, consider your own children, or parents. Young people cast out of not only their neighborhoods, but possibly the entire region in which they grew up. Elderly or disabled people stranded by an environment too physically spread out by an orientation around the automobile to get around without it. The babies that are never conceived because of the sheer expense of doing what ordinary families have done for all of human history, in a place with economic opportunity in America today. The housing shortage is not an academic matter, or a figment of overprivileged Millennials. It is a genuine crisis, squeezing ordinary people, boxing them into a set of artificially restricted and overpriced choices. Anybody who cares about these matters in the abstract has a special duty to care about them in the concrete. Or the wood, or the brick, or however we literally build those values in the real world. Concerns over crowding or infrastructure or taxes, local character and historic preservation, mere nostalgia—these concerns are not invalid. But in some times, in some places, they come up against the flourishing of the person and the family, and in those times and places, the choice is already made for us. Related Reading: Thank you for reading! Please consider upgrading to a paid subscription to help support this newsletter. You’ll get a weekly subscribers-only piece, plus full access to the archive: over 900 pieces and growing. And you’ll help ensure more like this! You're currently a free subscriber to The Deleted Scenes. For the full experience, upgrade your subscription. |
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