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March 1, 2024 
 

Blessing the Baby

Diannely Antigua

When my upstairs neighbor invites me to her baby shower, 

                I feel guilty about forgetting to bring in my recycling bins, 

again. I am a bad neighbor, but she’s going to be a mother 

                so she’ll have to practice forgiveness on someone first. Usually, 

I’m a people pleaser. I am a people. I was born 

                with all the people I could ever create, inside me. I try 

to forgive them—their dirty handprints on my skirt, the towels

                left on the bathroom floor. We blessed the baby 

while we tied around our wrists one long, red string. 

                For a moment, the string connected us—wives, mothers, 

and me, neither—until it didn’t, until the scissors severed 

                us, made a bracelet of the blood string. I told the baby, 

I give you this wrist. The world will break all your blessings

                if it wants, and believe me, baby, most of the time, it wants.

Copyright © 2024 by Diannely Antigua. Originally published in Poem-a-Day on March 1, 2024, by the Academy of American Poets. 

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“When my neighbor invited me to her baby shower, I expected an afternoon of ‘Baby Shower Bingo,’ ‘Guess the Candy Bar in the Diaper,’ or the endless chorus of adoration when she unwrapped onesie after onesie. I dreaded the performance of it all. But this one was different. It was the best baby shower I’d ever been to—truly a sentence I never imagined I’d say. The blessing ceremony felt witchy and wonderful. Almost two years later, I hope my blessing has reached the baby; that even in this cruel world there is hope, even if that hope is as small as the red string bracelet I refused to take off for months.”
Diannely Antigua

Diannely Antigua is a Dominican American poet and educator, born and raised in Massachusetts. She is the author of Good Monster (Copper Canyon Press, 2024) and the poet laureate of Portsmouth, New Hampshire—both the youngest person and the first person of color to receive the title. 

Good Monster
(Copper Canyon Press, 2024)

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