RadReads​ - I’m pretty scared of this

Death is the great mystery of life. Our looming (and permanent) irrelevance.

But what if contemplating our mortality could help us live fuller, more purposeful lives right now?

The (harsh) reality of death can serve as a compass, guiding us to prioritize what matters most. And to live life on our own terms.

This week on The Examined Life Podcast, we’re joined by death doula, hospice worker and founder Maura McInerney-Rowley.​

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My top 3 takeaways

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​A fear of death is natural, but we can learn from it

Death represents the ultimate unknown. It’s natural to fear it. But instead of ignoring this fear, we can use it as a compass to help navigate life and prioritize what matters most.

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Hospice has a branding problem

When you hear the word “hospice,” most people think of it as a place to die. But it’s an alternative to the harsh lights, endless beeps and squeaky linoleum of a hospital. It’s a place to “maximize” a better quality of life.

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Little things can help with a fuller life

Altering our career path. Living on a different continent. Changing relationships. We often think drastic changes are needed for a fuller life. But something as simple as making a call or sending a text can make a difference.

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My favorite quote: Death can help you live life

Why this episode matters to me

As a kid, I had recurring nightmares about the infinite nature of time.

As a professional, I numbed myself with work — because I was terrified of facing the reality that one day I’d be a speck of dust.

I’ve wrestled with questions of legacy, aging and losing loved ones.

And I’ve lost people I love dearly.

By contemplating death, my fear of it has plummeted.

I’ve even found beauty in this paradoxical cycle of life.

If you want to dig deeper

I’m excited to dive into some of Maura’s book recommendations:

• ​The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker
• ​The Five Invitations by Frank Ostaseski
• ​The Four Things that Matter Most by Dr. Ira Byock
• ​A Beginner’s Guide to the End by Dr. BJ Miller and Shoshana Berger

Love letters from our fans

“It's just real. Reminds me it's okay not to take myself so serious"

[In reference to the 9 lessons from 9 years after Wall Street video]

Hope you enjoy the episode,

Khe

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