The Deleted Scenes - Slot Machine Or Treasure Hunt?
I’ve seen smartphones, often in the context of social media referred to in the following ways: magic glass, anxiety slabs, slot machines. I like them all, but the last one probably gets at the reality the best. That is from this interesting piece from a Substack called Startup Parent, by Sarah Peck:
The piece isn’t mainly about smartphones or social media. But what a good way to think about what these apps are doing. The largely random but slightly skilled element to virality in particular. Of course the screens are not enough. This makes me wonder whether the notion that the smartphone and the phenomenon of always being connected has eaten away at real community isn’t quite right. Maybe this screen addiction is largely downstream of community having already been greatly diminished. Bowling Alone, for example, was published in 2000, based on a 1995 essay. There were plenty of middle-class American homes that didn’t have a computer, let alone high-speed internet, in those days. The idea that the behavior we call screen addiction, or whatever term you opt for, is a kind of maladaptive behavior to deal with social loneliness sounds pretty plausible. But what that essay is really about is the need for more than just your family and your close friends. She describes it this way:
Urbanists like to talk about the sociological ideas of third places and weak ties. Third places are spaces that are not home or work—in America they’re generally commercial, but they don’t have to be—where you can just sort of exist around other people and be social or keep to yourself. (The typical example is sitting in a coffee shop where a bunch of people hang out, remote work, etc.) Weak ties are all the people you run into, exchange pleasantries with, see once a month. The people who sort of give human interest to your life and fill in space between your heavy relationships. The idea being that a big part of human happiness is just sort of being in the middle of things. It’s not that close friends and a romantic partner aren’t enough, per se; it’s that those weak ties and that general proximity to people is another thing entirely. There’s no ratio for how many strong ties make up for so many weak ties. Now I think it’s impossible to really talk about any of this without talking about the built environment... Subscribe to The Deleted Scenes to unlock the rest.Become a paying subscriber of The Deleted Scenes to get access to this post and other subscriber-only content. A subscription gets you:
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