In a world that often glorifies self-sufficiency, many leaders and high performers feel the weight of unrealistic expectations—the belief that they must have all the answers, solve every problem independently, and push through challenges without support. But the highest achievers, the most respected leaders, and the most influential figures in history have all recognized one crucial truth: greatness is never achieved alone.

Behind every extraordinary leader is a trusted inner circle—mentors, advisors, and confidants who provide wisdom, truth, advice, compassion, and encouragement. Every relationship, whether brief or lasting, shapes who we are and who we become. The challenge lies in choosing wisely.

Author Michell C. Clark captures this reality brilliantly:

"The best writers in the world need editors. Elite athletes need skill coaches. Therapists need therapy. Needing help doesn’t mean you’re bad at what you do—it means you’re smart enough to know that you’ll never be the best version of yourself if you try to do everything alone."

The common thread? The best never stop learning, unlearning, relearning, growing, refining and evolving.

The idea of the "self-made" leader or high performer is misleading. No champion stands alone at the top of their field without guidance, mentorship, community, or collaboration. Michael Jordan had Phil Jackson. Steve Jobs had Steve Wozniak. Serena Williams had coach Patrick Mouratoglou.

Every groundbreaking entrepreneur, elite athlete, and visionary thinker has built their success on the foundation of a strong support system—those special individuals who believe in them even when they struggle to believe in themselves. Each of us has gotten to where we are on our leadership and personal transformation journey because of someone else.

Yet, many of us still hesitate to ask for help. We fear it signals weakness, inadequacy, or incompetence. But in reality, recognizing our limitations and seeking support is not a weakness—it is an essential skill and a competitive advantage. It takes courage to admit we don’t know something. It takes wisdom to surround ourselves with those who challenge us to transform, become better, and fill in the gaps of our blind spots.

If we truly desire to grow as leaders, it would be wise to lean into and embrace the power of seeking support. Here’s how:

You do not need to carry the weight of responsibility alone. It’s okay not to know something. Two of the most powerful phrases we can express as leaders are: "I don't know" and "I need help." These two phrases provide a pathway to meaningful discoveries, greater clarity, and deeper connection.

When we embrace support, we don’t just improve ourselves—we create a ripple effect, strengthening our team, community, and organization.

So, let go of the myth that you must do it all and alone. The best leaders—like the best writers, athletes, and therapists—achieve greatness not by standing alone, but by standing with others and asking for help.

The real question is: Who is in your inner circle? Who are you allowing to support and sharpen you?

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