Ann Friedman - Walking in late

e832fd0e-7fa9-452b-ad37-b96fc36dbf0d.jpg
600x300
  

This week
I'm certain you're aware that today is Juneteenth. My inbox and social feeds have been flooded with statements about it. In an interview about Juneteenth from 2017, journalist Isabel Wilkerson described most white Americans' understanding of history as "walking into a movie theater in the middle of a movie." And indeed, here we are. We're late.

True, it's better to take our seats late than to glance at the marquee and keep strolling past the theater. But some acknowledgment of our tardiness—and some time to absorb what we missed in the first half of the film—is in order. Case in point: I'm only able to quote the Wilkerson interview today because I went searching for interviews with historians after I saw Juneteenth pop up on my Google calendar two days ago, and realized I needed more education about it.

Part of this broader moment, for me, is about acknowledging the many ways I'm a late and doing the work to catch up. What does it mean for a white person or a predominantly white organization to say "Happy Juneteenth!"? I'm not sure I have a full answer yet, but I do know it involves understanding the first half of the movie—and also exiting the theater and getting to work.

On a related note, on Call Your Girlfriend today we talk about the superficial solidarity statements being issued by everyone from magazines to big-box stores to weapons manufacturers—and what real reckoning might look like.

I'm reading
"Change once painted as impossibly radical is becoming reality." Why this time is different. "I don’t know, I don’t know, I don’t know, son. A prayer, a confession, a warped hymn I can’t just swallow behind my lips: I’ve seen so much, and still I don’t know." On private anxiety in a very public pandemic. The desperation of American workers—and why it didn't have to be this way. How “middlemen minorities” played a role in the death of George Floyd. On finding well-being and Black joy when the world is on fire. WNBA legend Maya Moore's extraordinary quest for justice. On performative allyship at work. We still haven’t fully recognized the art made by 20th-century Black artists. An interview with cinematographer and artist Arthur Jafa. The pandemic as a translation challenge. What does Pride mean now? On cooperatively owned land as a way of building wealth. Women realize their "Live Laugh Love" decor is being mocked online, and decide they like it anyway. "I miss the way a friend’s laugh shifts the atmosphere of a room."

And my personal #BlackoutBestsellerList purchases: A Black Women's History of the United States by Daina Ramey Berry and Kali Nicole Gross, Eve L. Ewing's 1919, and I Don't Want to Die Poor by Michael Arceneaux.


Pie chart
The Yes We're Still Wearing Masks Pie
 
Pie is free for all, courtesy of paying members. Thanks so much for your support!

I’m looking & listening
Miss Juneteenth (watch the trailer here). Recorder, a documentary about activist and archivist Marion Stokes, who recorded American television 24 hours a day for over 30 years. Candyman, an animated short, is "at the intersection of white violence and black pain, is about unwilling martyrs." Nadiya's Time to Eat. And I honestly laughed so hard at this report about "social dis-dancing" at a Dutch club.

GIFspiration
Nikole Hannah-Jones on The 1619 Project, which deeply engages with the first half of the movie.

I endorse
To do: Take action in solidarity with Black trans people.

To buy: I love this letterpress-printed WTF poster—a whole mood!—by George McCalman.

And as a follow-up to last week's newsletter about doing the work where you are, I've been paying attention to the ways that some of my fellow white media-makers are reckoning with their own work—especially when it comes to editorial outlets that are not explicitly about race or social justice: This episode of Who?Weekly (a podcast about celebrity gossip), this episode of A Thing or Two (a podcast about small business, design, curation), and this post by designer Dylan Lathrop about the sports site Bleacher Report. These more specific assessments of how to de-center whiteness are, to me, much more promising than a general "we have to do better" statement.

The Classifieds

You've seen my ads here, and you've been thinking, "I should really see about therapy with this woman, maybe she could actually help." Expert video therapy, feminist sensibility. Specializing in women's empowerment, anchoring digital nomads/expats.
In the weekly podcast How to Talk to Mamí & Papí About Anything, first-gen adult children of immigrant parents share stories to help them find ways to approach taboo subjects; and experts offer actionable real-life advice. Subscribe anywhere. TalkToMamiPapi.com @TalkToMamiPapi
Lockdown doesn't mean you can't unlock your life: relationships, family, sexuality, work. Therapy with a progressive slant. (NY state only)

It's rhubarb season! Handmade jam tarts with Northcountry NY wild fruits! Visit wildfruits.co and try our strawberry rhubarb.

Want to find clarity? Bold Thursday offers tarot readings & rituals for self-discovery. Get unstuck, plan ahead or check-in with the cards.

Subscribe to Poet-in-Residence, a newsletter of poems about pop culture and the internet by Leigh Stein, the "poet laureate of The Bachelor."


Testimonials
"Her weekly round up of links (of which I usually click 75% and read like 10% of that 75%) are great critical thinking pieces, often getting me to think a level deeper than the face value. Like, basically, we can always go deeper, and in a world of snorkelers, Ann is a deep sea diver. " -Jessica. Diving into the internet rather than surfing it!

This newsletter is catching up.
Forward it to someone who's better late than never.


In less than a month, my book Big Friendship will be out in the world!
You can really help me out by pre-ordering it now.



Ann Friedman
AF WEEKLY

MORE ANN
| | Ladyswagger, Inc.
PO Box 26932 | Los Angeles, CA 90026
© 2020


Older messages

The work is where we are.

Friday, June 12, 2020

Surprise me View in browser June 12, 2020 This week "The work is offline. The work is online. The work includes presence. The work includes absence. The work is virtual. The work is in the streets

Very good people

Friday, May 29, 2020

Surprise me View in browser May 29, 2020 This week Who gets to be a very good person, and who gets labeled a thug? Whose violence is seen as justified and sanctioned, and whose violence is called

Big little decisions

Friday, May 22, 2020

Surprise me View in browser May 22, 2020 600x300 Marissa Evans This week There are no small decisions these days. Is it ok to take my mask off for awhile when I'm out walking, as long as I put it

“God wants us to walk, but the devil sends a limo.”

Friday, May 8, 2020

Surprise me View in browser May 08, 2020 600x300 LZ Lerman This week On some Fridays I have deep thoughts for you. On others, I just have links and Val Kilmer gifs. This week is one of the latter. On

Didn't we do this yesterday?

Friday, May 1, 2020

Surprise me View in browser May 01, 2020 This week What is time anymore? Is it slowing down? Flying by? How is it possible that March lasted one million years and April was a blink? [Insert Groundhog

You Might Also Like

How Dems Can Avoid Falling into Trump's Trap

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Democrats must find a way to push back against Trump without becoming the defenders of a broken political system ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

5 takeaways from Michelin’s Texas debut

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Lone stars in the Lone Star State. ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

Your Week Ahead Reading 11/18 to 11/25 2024

Sunday, November 17, 2024

The highlight of this week is that Pluto enters Aquarius for the next 19 years, and it will never be in Capricorn again in this lifetime. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

RI#250 - World history/Gut health/Stay connected

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Hello again! My name is Alex and every week I share with you the 5 most useful links for self-improvement and productivity that I have found on the web. ---------------------------------------- You are

Chicken Shed Chronicles.

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Inspiration For You. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

"Sufficient" by Ina Donna Coolbrith

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Citron, pomegranate, / Apricot, and peach, Facebook Twitter Instagram Poem-a-Day is reader-supported. Your gift today will help the Academy of American Poets continue to publish the work of 260 poets

“PERFECT RED LIPSTICK” (SHORT STORY)

Sunday, November 17, 2024

She paints her lips carefully, precisely, watching the colour bloom. There are dozens of lipsticks in her collection, each containing its own shade of promise. “Perfect Red Lipstick” is a meditative

It’s my housemates who have shaped me, not romantic partners (By Alice Wilkinson)

Sunday, November 17, 2024

I'm putting this newsletter together at my dining room table. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Jen Aniston Wore The Perfect Alternative To Skinny Jeans For Fall

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Adding to cart! The Zoe Report Daily The Zoe Report 11.16.2024 Jen Aniston Wore The Perfect Alternative To Skinny Jeans For Fall (Celebrity) Jen Aniston Wore The Perfect Alternative To Skinny Jeans For

Our Favorite Workout Headphones Are Almost 50% Off Right Now

Saturday, November 16, 2024

If you have trouble reading this message, view it in a browser. Men's Health The Check Out Welcome to The Check Out, our newsletter that gives you a deeper look at some of our editors' favorite