All the light of consciousness we cannot see

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A Black man with a moustache and a floral hat sits at a small cafe table alone, with empty tables on either side. The background looks like wood paneling, and in his hand he's holding an open book.
© Nancy A. Scherl from the book Dining Alone: In The Company of Solitude published by Daylight Books   

This week
Second star to the right and straight on to the links! 

I'm reading
"Twitter was always a vehicle for billionaire cash," remarks Edward Ongweso Jr. Odious rich men essentially own the entire internet. Meanwhile, Justine Calma reports on the mega-warehouses that support our online shopping habits: "Behind every $1 billion in online sales is an estimated 1.25 million square feet of warehouse space."

Porochista Khakpour on being shaped by Los Angeles, leaving and returning and leaving again: "L.A. was the first place to teach me that sometimes, sadly, love is like that, too — as heavy and dull and bleak and indifferent and sprawling as it is, you might barely feel it but it’s there, it has you."

"Who am I," asks Alicia Kennedy, "if I’m doing domesticity, as work and as an expression of love?" This really resonated with me, a person who gets joy from some traditional domestic acts like cooking and sewing. It's a blurry line between a labor of love and labor-labor, and it's hard not to want to draw that line brighter if you're a woman. 

A handful of new shows conflate Black excellence with Black affluence, writes Tanisha C. Ford.

Dan Piepenbring on the politics of camping in America, and how sleeping outside has been embraced or condemned, depending on who’s doing it. And a reminder that unhoused people are ... people. With loved ones. With histories. With futures.

Jesus Rodriguez on getting his immigration papers after a decade of living in the US without them: "I realized I am no longer the person the work permit reflects."

And in the latest installment of Dream Interpretation for Dummies, Autumn Fourkiller goes subconscious-spelunking for "the deep-seated something that weighs you down."


Pie chart
How are we extending the light of consciousness? 20% Gratuitous tunneling; 10% Not sure yet, but definitely doing it in aviators; 25% Trying to become the main character of outer space; 15% Equipping our futuristic vehicles with fart and cowbell noises; 20% Naming our child a collection of vowels; 10% Improving our hairline
The Musk Pie
with a curtsy to this hilarious tweet
 

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I’m looking & listening
Some excellent photo projects: The haunting history of a huckster's "cancer cure" hotel. OUR ROOTS "explores the complexities of the Asian-American identity." Facing Life follows eight formerly incarcerated people as they rebuild their lives [via California Sun]. And Nancy A. Scherl's moving portraits, one of which is reprinted above, of people dining alone

A moment
Britney Spears in a red bodysuit with the text: JUST SO TYPICALLY MAY
...which means it's emotionally already October. Merry Christmas, I guess? (Why does time feel like this?!!)

I endorse

The words "Illustrated black history: Honoring the iconic and the unseen" appear on a background of bright, multicolor overlapping silhouettes

Illustrated Black History, an ambitious and gorgeous celebration of "iconic and unseen" Black Americans and their achievements. George McCalman created 145 original portraits for this book, and they're all accompanied by short essays. Pre-order it! You've probably heard this before, but pre-orders really matter when it comes to the success of a book like this. Your future self will be thrilled to find a copy on the doorstep in a few months.

File under: Black History Month is every. single. month.

I also recommend this great conversation I had with George on CYG last year.


What do you endorse?
As this newsletter's audience grows, I paradoxically get fewer and fewer replies. I hate that! So I have an invitation: Please tell me about something that's bringing you joy, calming you down, helping you feel connected lately. I want to hear about it.

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