Make it safe for everyone to speak during meetings

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Leading the Way
If you're a "go it alone" kind of leader, failure looms
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Lone wolf leaders are often highly creative and results-oriented, but their downfall is that they expect their team to follow them without first earning their respect by building relationships, being a good collaborator and putting their team's needs first, writes Get Lighthouse CEO Jason Evanish. Leaders with such tendencies can overcome them by choosing team members they can trust, building soft skills and realizing how their behavior affects others, Evanish recommends.
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Put it into practice: Be smart before promoting a lone wolf team member into a leadership position by taking time to reveal their blind spots to them and finding out if they're willing to change their ways, Evanish recommends. "You need to embrace your role as a leader to coach them so they have a chance to develop."
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Make it safe for everyone to speak during meetings
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Unequal power dynamics, language barriers or other factors may be hampering your team from participating in meetings, writes executive coach Luis Velasquez, who notes that leaders must create a psychologically safe environment that welcomes participation. "As leaders, we must cultivate teams where every member's contributions are not only heard but eagerly anticipated, and where every member feels safe to voice their opinion, even contrarian ones," Velasquez writes.
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Put it into practice: Build psychological safety in meetings by introducing rituals that make everyone feel welcome, making the agenda clear so everyone can prepare and rotating who facilitates meetings, writes Velasquez. "Giving those who are typically less vocal a structured role can help empower them to speak."
When your boss makes a decision you disagree with, find time to meet with them in private, come prepared with alternate solutions, use a diplomatic tone and listen closely to their response to find common ground, writes Lolly Daskal. "Disagreeing with your boss is not inherently negative; when approached with tact, respect, and a solution-oriented mindset, disagreements can be opportunities for growth and collaboration," Daskal notes.
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Put it into practice: Whenever you're discussing points of disagreement with your boss, remain professional, even if challenged, and focus instead on listening for points of agreement, Daskal notes. "Listening demonstrates your openness to different ideas and can lead to a more productive conversation."
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How financially stressed are your people? Twenty-five percent of you expressed having significant amounts of stress related to your personal finances.

More likely than not, you make more money than the members of your team. If that many of you are facing financial challenges, how do you think your lower-paid team members are doing? If they're doing great work, be sure they're getting paid appropriately for it. Fight for raises they deserve. Give them spot bonuses. Create promotion opportunities. Put them in touch with financial resources like counselors you may have available to your associates.

If you can remove some of their financial stress, they'll be healthier, happier and loyal. Take care of the things that are on their mind so they can focus on more important things like their work, their families and their health.

-- Mike Figliuolo is managing director of thoughtLEADERS, which includes TITAN -- the firm's e-learning platform. Previously, he worked at McKinsey & Co., Capital One and Scotts Miracle-Gro. He is a West Point graduate and author of three leadership books: "One Piece of Paper," "Lead Inside the Box" and "The Elegant Pitch."
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With apologies to William Shakespeare, I have found that some people are born leaders, others achieve leadership and others have leadership thrust upon them. I fall in that last category. I never planned to lead anything, but when you found a spiritual community, suddenly, everyone thinks you're a leader.

I became one of those "lone wolf" leaders that Get Lighthouse CEO Jason Evanish writes about. I tried to do it all myself -- from setting up chairs before the celebration to tearing it all down, to handling the finances, the marketing ... I tried doing everything. It's not that others didn't want to help. It's just that this truly was my first rodeo, and delegating wasn't my strong suit.

I had all the "lone wolf" tendencies of independence (knowing that if I did it, it would be done "right"), results-oriented, self-reliant, anti-authority and socially disengaged. I discovered what Evanish calls the difference between a leader and a lone wolf: "When a leader turns around, there's a group following them. When a lone wolf turns around, they're alone."

It's worth taking stock of your leadership style. Where are you within these characteristics of a lone wolf leader? If you can check off two or more of these traits, it may be time to get some coaching or do some serious self-reflection before you turn around and find that you're alone.

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