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You can do better than drugstore lube

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Personal lubricant can enhance both solo and partnered sex, making the experience more comfortable and pleasurable overall. But finding the right one can be tricky.

To find the best ones, we tried 29 options: We assessed the feel, smell, and taste of each, and we considered factors like packaging (Is the bottle travel friendly? Is it discreet enough to display?), price, and consistency. And we interviewed experts, including sex educators, doctors, sex-toy store owners, and even the chief science officer of a major lube company.

After all that, we’re sure that there is no single best lube for every body and every sexual activity. But we did find six great standout options for different needs to help kick-start your search.

The lubes we recommend→

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Shopping for sex toys can be intimidating for first-time buyers and experienced users alike. After 10 years of research and testing, we still think our (widely beloved) top pick is the best vibrator. No other toy offers the same level of power and intensity. And as an added bonus …

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