4 ways to fall in love with your job again

4 ways to fall in love with your job again | practice (split each time) | 3 ways toxic positivity can negatively affect you
Created for you  |  Unknown Title at Unknown Company
For more relevant content - Update Your Profile  |  Web Version
September 19, 2024
CONNECT WITH SMARTBRIEF LinkedInFacebookX
SmartBrief on Leadership
Innovative Ideas. Ahead of the Curve.SIGN UP ⋅   SHARE
 
Leading the Way
4 ways to fall in love with your job again
(Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Images)
Developing an emotional attachment to your job -- or taking "psychological ownership" -- can increase engagement, productivity and enjoyment of your work, writes Sara Daw, the group CEO of The CFO Centre and The Liberti Group. Daw outlines four strategies to take ownership, including finding areas of control, investing in building relationships with colleagues and being willing to help others to foster a sense of safety on your team.
Full Story: Big Think (9/18) 
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
Put it into practice: Develop a sense of intimacy with your colleagues by scheduling one-on-one meetings to get to know them as well as finding time to be social outside the office, Daw recommends. "Intimacy also enhances our engagement and satisfaction with our work through having a deep knowledge and appreciation of our role, its purpose, and its impact."
Empower Your Boardroom
Invest in your board of directors with a powerful yet intuitive solution that keeps leaders engaged with their board. OnBoard is the #1 rated board management software platform featuring enterprise-grade security, user-friendly design, and real-time collaboration. Learn More
ADVERTISEMENT
SmartBrief on Leadership
3 ways toxic positivity can negatively affect you
(invincible_bulldog/Getty Images)
Positivity can become toxic if it leads us to reject, avoid or minimize our emotions, which can lead to delusional thinking and cause us to miss out on emotions that can be helpful for growth, writes LaRae Quy. "Our brain is wired to pay more attention to negative emotions than positive ones for a very good reason: they alert us to danger in our environment. Getting our feelings under control, both positive and negative, is a sign of good mental health," Quy notes.
Full Story: SmartBrief/Leadership (9/18) 
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
Put it into practice: Toxic positivity can cause us to overlook red flags in business or other areas of life, which can lead to bad decisions, writes Quy. "When something is really getting us down, pretending to feel better than we do can prevent us from digging into our situation to find realistic solutions."
Read more from LaRae Quy on SmartBrief on Leadership
Never stop Learning. Sharpen skills. Build teams.
Invest in your team or enhance your professional growth by registering for Vanderbilt Executive Education's Negotiation Skills for Managers or Navigating Organizations: The Managers Roadmap program. We equip you with the tools and skills to advance your career and achieve better outcomes. Learn More.
ADVERTISEMENT:
Smarter Communication
With 86% of employees feeling their voices are ignored, leadership coach Lolly Daskal outlines seven strategies to ensure employees feel heard including fostering psychological safety, providing multiple channels for feedback, acting on that feedback and promoting positive collaboration. "Show your team that their input has real implications by implementing changes based on their suggestions. This not only improves the workplace but also reinforces the value of their contributions," Daskal writes.
Full Story: Lolly Daskal (9/18) 
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
Put it into practice: Don't wait for your team members to come to you with suggestions or concerns; engage with them regularly and solicit their feedback, Daskal recommends. "This proactive approach shows that you value their input and are keen on incorporating their insights into decision-making processes."
Featured Job Listings
When you click or apply to one of these jobs through the link in our newsletter, we may receive an affiliate commission.
Future of Work
Your work future could include ...
In Their Own Words
How Taco Bell HR exec nurtures talent, leadership
(Don Emmert/AFP/Getty Images)
Jamie Harrison, Taco Bell's new vice president of HR, focuses on unlocking opportunities through initiatives such as the internal incubator and Bell Bravo recognition program, which are designed to foster creativity and innovation and make employees feel valued and connected. "I started as a frontline employee, and now I'm an executive leader for a beloved brand, so I try to be the voice of those team members who are in the shoes I walked in 30 years ago," Harrison says.
Full Story: QSR (9/17) 
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
Daily Diversion
Earth may have once had a ring system like Saturn's, formed from a disintegrated asteroid around 466 million years ago, according to a study in Earth and Planetary Science Letters. The ring, formed from a massive asteroid broken apart by Earth's tidal forces, could explain the equatorial concentration of impacts and climatic changes during the Ordovician period, researchers say.
Full Story: Live Science (9/17) 
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
SmartBreak: Question of the Day
The Boeing Starliner astronauts might be in space until February 2025 -- more than 240 days. It's not a record, but neither is NASA astronaut Scott Kelly's space time. How many days did he spend off-planet?
Vote80 days
Vote80 days
Vote340 days
Vote2,001 days
About The Editor
Candace Chellew
Candace Chellew
Chellew (Photo credit: Lester Boykin)
It's essential to strike a balance between optimism and acknowledging the difficulties we all face in life. When we allow room for both our positive and negative emotions, we can avoid the trap of "toxic positivity."

As LaRae Quy points out, aiming for hope instead of optimism can be a healthier choice. "Optimism is just unquestioningly expecting the best. Hope is seeing the challenges but making plans for a better future anyway."

Toxic positivity can increase our anxiety as we suppress our genuine emotions and lead us to unrealistic expectations of how our lives should unfold. Life is full of ups and downs and not being able to acknowledge that can strain relationships and hinder our emotional growth.

That's not to say we shouldn't look on the bright side. We absolutely should look for the silver lining in every cloudy day, but we can only do that when we embrace all of our emotions and seek to learn the lessons they bring.

As Quy advises: "If you feel pressure to be endlessly optimistic, stop and acknowledge the pain and hardship for what they are. Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl called this mindset 'tragic optimism.' Stop trying to constantly stay positive and instead look for meaning and growth amid the darkness."

If this newsletter helps you, please tell your colleagues, friends or anyone who can benefit. Forward them this email, or send this link.

What topics do you see in your daily work that I should know about? Do you have any feedback you'd like to share? Drop me a note. And while you're at it, please send me photos of your pets, your office and where you spend your time off so we can share them.
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
Sharing SmartBrief on Leadership with your network keeps the quality of content high and these newsletters free.
Help Spread the Word
SHARE
Or copy and share your personalized link:
smartbrief.com/leadership/?referrerId=ozrlmJyztp
I don't look back. I go forward.
Herb Alpert,
trumpeter, songwriter, co-founder of A&M Records
LinkedIn X Facebook Email
 
SmartBrief publishes more than 200 free industry newsletters - Browse our portfolio
Sign Up  |    Update Profile  |    Advertise with SmartBrief
Unsubscribe  |    Privacy policy
CONTACT US: FEEDBACK  |    ADVERTISE
SmartBrief Future
Copyright © 2024 SmartBrief. All Rights Reserved.
A division of Future US LLC
Full 7th Floor, 130 West 42nd Street, New York, NY, 10036.

Older messages

Boss walking all over you? Time to "unboss" your company

Wednesday, September 18, 2024

Boss walking all over you? Time to "unboss" your company | practice (split each time) | Flex IT muscles to make "hyper-flex" work a reality Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com |

When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave

Tuesday, September 17, 2024

When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave | practice (split each time) | Want more gravitas as a leader? Ask these questions Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at

3 ways to hone your intuition to make better decisions

Monday, September 16, 2024

3 ways to hone your intuition to make better decisions | practice (split each time) | Struggling with moods or mistakes? You may need a nap Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at

Focus on context cues to boost career development

Friday, September 13, 2024

Are you giving mixed signals to your teams? Buckle up | practice (split each time) | Focus on context cues to boost career development Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown

Talk about your company's past to move toward the future

Thursday, September 12, 2024

Talk about your company's past to move toward the future | practice (split each time) | Look beyond personal interests to lead bigger Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown

You Might Also Like

463 — Lasse Jensen

Saturday, December 21, 2024

3D Designer and Creator from Denmark ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​ ͏​

This Christmas carol offers important leadership lessons

Friday, December 20, 2024

The best way to support your team in difficult times Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown Company For more relevant content - Update Your Profile | Web Version December 20,

NoDesk: Issue #349

Thursday, December 19, 2024

A weekly newsletter with the best new remote jobs, stories and ideas from the remote work community, and occasional offbeat pieces to feed your curiosity. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Weekly Jobs Update - 19 Dec, 2024

Thursday, December 19, 2024

New jobs at Paradigm, Institute of Free Technology, Gelato Network, M31 Capital, Octav, Risk Labs, RedStone, Twinstake, Flight3, ZetaChain, Nethermind, cLabs, Space ID, Galxe and more ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Find your purpose to escape career doldrums

Thursday, December 19, 2024

Find your purpose to escape career doldrums Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown Company For more relevant content - Update Your Profile | Web Version December 19, 2024

Don't like the boss? Try the "unboss" instead

Thursday, December 19, 2024

Don't like the boss? Try the "unboss" instead | Put it into practice | Create your own empowerment with these simple words Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown

[Webinar] Leverage generative AI to win customers

Thursday, December 19, 2024

Join Salesforce and Accenture to see how generative AI can drive personalized, engaging customer experiences. Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Web Version This is a paid advertisement for

NoDesk: Issue #348

Thursday, December 19, 2024

A weekly newsletter with the best new remote jobs, stories and ideas from the remote work community, and occasional offbeat pieces to feed your curiosity. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Weekly Jobs Update - 12 Dec, 2024

Thursday, December 19, 2024

New jobs at Omni Network, Interop Labs, StableLab, Gelato Network, APhone, Flipster. P2P.org, Nethermind, Accountable, RedStone, Nascent, Staking Rewards, Bitrefill and more ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

5 ways to get others on board with your ideas

Thursday, December 19, 2024

Mahomes shows why sometimes leaders must take a knee Created for newsletterest1@gmail.com | Unknown Title at Unknown Company For more relevant content - Update Your Profile | Web Version December 13,