theSkimm - Can “October theory” change your life?

But first: why so many soon-to-be parents are doing genetic screening — Check out what we Skimm’d for you today
daily_skimm
Together with
myriad genetics

But first: why so many soon-to-be parents are doing genetic screening


Update location or View forecast

Good morning.

We’re about two weeks away from Election Day, and I don’t know about you, but I’m ready for it. Clearly, I’m not alone — states like North Carolina and Georgia are breaking first-day turnout records for early voting. Meanwhile, voters in the seven key swing states are experiencing a political messaging blitz, with campaigns vying for every last vote. Wondering what happens after all the ballots are cast? Here’s a fascinating look at how the Associated Press calls the winners (all 6,000+ of them). Now, let’s get to the news…

Marina Carver / Senior Editor / Brooklyn, NY

What's Happening

National Security Agency
US News

"Top Secret" Documents About Israel Leak, Prompt Investigation

What's going on: The US is looking into a leak of classified intelligence documents that allegedly detail Israel’s military plans to strike Iran. The reports, prepared by the National Geospatial-Intelligence Agency, describe how Israel might use drone units as part of a retaliatory attack. The documents first surfaced last week on a pro-Iranian Telegram channel. The account’s operators claim they “have no connection to the original source,” but they assume it was “a whistleblower within the US Department of Defense.” Unnamed officials told The New York Times that the documents appear authentic, but the National Geospatial-Intelligence Agency has not commented.

What it means: The source of the leak remains unknown. Officials are investigating whether hackers are involved or if the leak came from inside the house (read: whistleblower). It’s still unclear how these sensitive documents ended up on a Telegram channel affiliated with Iran, or if more documents could be released. Experts say that if no additional files emerge, the impact of the leak may be minimal, as it doesn’t provide new information about US military capabilities. However, this isn’t a great look for the US, as it could highlight the extent to which America monitors even its closest allies.

Related: These Are the Biggest Intelligence Leaks in US History (BBC)

Politics

Elon Musk Dangles $1M Checks for Political Pledges

What's going on: Standing in front of an American flag in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, on Saturday, billionaire Elon Musk held a giant check for $1 million. He handed it to a man who’d signed his petition supporting free speech and gun rights. The petition is part of Musk’s PAC, which aims to help former President Donald Trump win the presidency in November. From now until the election, Musk says he plans to give $1M every day to a randomly selected swing state voter who signs the online petition. But behind the scenes of this star-spangled spectacle, some experts warn the move might violate federal election laws, which ban paying voters to influence registration or turnout.

What it means: This isn’t the first time Musk has opened his wallet to help the Trump campaign. Musk recently hosted the former president for an interview (or was it a hype session?) on his platform X, which has boosted pro-Trump messaging. Adding to their connection, Trump announced last month that if he wins, he'd appoint the Tesla CEO to head a commission dedicated to government efficiency. Meanwhile, Musk’s PAC — aimed at registering voters in battleground states — may not meet its goals (it’s no Hyperloop, but it’s missing targets). That’s not stopping Musk from going all in, though, as he plants himself in Pennsylvania in the weeks leading up to the election. Hope he likes cheesesteaks. 

Related: Why Did Trump Serve Fries at McDonald’s? (CBS)

US News

Would You Like a Side of Relief With That Sandwich Generation?

What's going on: The “sandwich generation” is suffering. The moniker refers to the 11 million Americans who care for their children and at least one adult, typically a parent, according to The Wall Street Journal. People are having children later in life while their aging parents are living to be older, meaning they stay in this caregiving role longer than previous generations. And as more people find themselves juggling these responsibilities, the financial strain continues to grow. The average age of such “sandwich” caregivers is about 49, and while most are women, men are a growing part of this number. Meanwhile, nearly a third are millennials and Gen Z, according to a 2023 AARP report

What it means: The meat of this story is that the “sandwich” gen’s responsibilities are leaving them burnt out. The load can also harm their quality of life, drain their bank accounts, and even hurt their ability to thrive in their careers. One study found that a person in their 40s who spends $1,500 a month for more than five years to support an older loved one could lose over $1 million in potential retirement savings. Plus, that’s not even factoring in the rising cost of childcare, which can be twice as much as rent, according to one analysis. That’s one expensive sandwich. 

Related: The Real Cost of Caring for an Aging Loved One (Vox)

Quick Hits

🏀 As fans celebrate the New York Liberty, others (especially LeBron James) can’t get over this controversial call at last night’s WNBA championship game.


👀 Is this leather apron really for the kitchen? Things are getting spicy.


🍂 Social media is falling in love with “October theory,” but can it really change your life?


🚗 We can’t stop watching this viral TikTok video of a near car “accident.” Suddenly dash cams are on our holiday wishlist.


💯 We know that Zendaya’s Cher-inspired look set off your group chat. No notes.

Don’t Wait Challenge

Set it and (for a year at least) forget it

green progress bar

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Day 4

Day 5

Look who found the time for preventive health. You got informed and maybe even motivated,  booked your appointments in one sprint, and prepped to get the guidance that will keep you healthy going forward.

Now for the last step: Click here to set automatic calendar reminders to book the appointments you need next year. Bonus points for pasting the link to our Don’t Wait page into the reminder, so it’s easy to see what you need as you age. Then set all of this aside until you get an alert next year. Your future self thanks you.

To review the previous days click here.

don't wait

If we’ve done our job right, we’ve not only convinced you to prioritize your well-being, but we’ve even gotten you interested in health overall. To keep that going, subscribe to the Skimm Well newsletter. We’ll keep you updated on the health stories, products, and trends everyone’s talking about. Who said health has to be boring?

Remember

Almost 50% of women put off the preventive care they need. Together, we can bring that number down.

Skimm Picks

Here are today’s recs to help you live a smarter life…

This behavioral psychology-backed app can help you adjust your habits so you hit your health goals — no matter how busy you are. Take this quiz to start your free trial.*


This is not a drill: Ring Concierge is offering a pair of free diamond earrings (yes, you read that right) with any purchase of $750 or more. The deal ends today and until supplies last, so get shopping now.


Brooklinen is taking 20% off everything through next Monday. Now's the time to get your hands on these cult-favorite plush towels, or hidden gems like this chic linen shower curtain or checkered throw.


Do you need a new pair of jeans? That's a rhetorical question. Here are the pairs worth buying this season, from bestselling straight-leg jeans to a baggy pair that's actually flattering.

Psst…love our recs? Follow @skimmshopping on Instagram for more products, gifts, and services that are actually worth the hype (and the price tag).

Settle This

Airplanes at an airport

An airport in New Zealand has put a time limit on goodbye hugs. What's your airport sendoff style?

Extra Credit

Book cover for "Love Can't Feed You"

Read

In Cherry Lou Sy’s powerful debut novel, Love Can’t Feed You, 17-year-old Queenie emigrates from the Philippines with her brother and elderly father to live in New York with her mother, who came to the US five years earlier. But Queenie’s new life is nothing like the American dream she imagined: Her mom seems very different; her brother begins acting out, causing tension at home; and Queenie’s dreams of attending college are stalled due to money troubles. Expect big questions about identity, culture, and family expectations in what’s been called both “astonishing” and “a knockout.”

Game Time

Flipart puzzmo game

Wake your brain up this Monday with a game of Flipart. Just rotate the pieces to fit within the frame and get ready to feel the rush when they all fall into place. Get into it.

Meet Us On The Leaderboard

Flipart | Spelltower | Crossword | Typeshift

This is worth your money

Shop smarter with the Skimm Shopping newsletter—your guide to curated products, books, and more to solve your everyday needs.

Older messages

Weekend: One-Legged Trousers Are Here 👀

Sunday, October 20, 2024

But first: happy fleece season — Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 20, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Header Image But first: happy fleece season Update location or View forecast

Weekend: Should I Apologize for My Partner? 👀

Sunday, October 20, 2024

But first: the ultimate road trip companion — Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 12, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Header Image Together with ford But first: the ultimate road trip

Weekend: Welcome to the Granny Panties Era 👵🏼

Sunday, October 20, 2024

But first: deals up to 50% off at Walmart — Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 13, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Header Image But first: deals up to 50% off at Walmart Update location

Hello, Soup Season 🥄

Sunday, October 20, 2024

But first: a sale-on-sale at Free People — Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 14, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Header Image But first: a sale-on-sale at Free People Update location

Healing a broken heart is expensive

Sunday, October 20, 2024

But first: why you may not actually be "sooo OCD" — Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 15, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Together with international ocd foundation But first

You Might Also Like

Storing Up Faith

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

What Do You Think You're Looking At? #185 ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Stanley Tucci has a hot take on sweatpants

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

— Check out what we Skimm'd for you today October 22, 2024 Subscribe Read in browser Header Image Together with Donna Karan New York But first: holiday gifts that scream quiet luxury Update

"Chinese Dream 61" by Timothy Yu

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Cartoons. Computer-generated smiles / and fixed eyes fill my daughter's screen, Facebook Twitter Instagram Support Poem-a-Day October 22, 2024 Chinese Dream 61 Timothy Yu Cartoons. Computer-

MIDDI Brand Spotlight: Contempee

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Meet the home decor brand offering impressive faux botanicals on a budget. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏

Nicole Kidman's Mermaid Gown Stole The Red Carpet At The Academy Museum Gala

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Plus, all the best dressed stars of the night. The Zoe Report Daily The Zoe Report 10.21.2024 Is it normal to want to jet-set on another trip as soon as you get home from one? I just got settled back

The Two Steps to Getting Someone on the Anti-Racism Express

Monday, October 21, 2024

How to get people to acknowledge that racial inequities exist and that it's wrong. OHF WEEKLY The Two Steps to Getting Someone on the Anti-Racism Express How to get people to acknowledge that

7 Things You Should Do Now to Prep Your Car for Winter

Monday, October 21, 2024

How Skipping Homeowners Insurance Can Backfire. It's important to take a few steps to get your car ready for winter. Do it now, while it's warmer, so you're not struggling in the cold. Not

Maria Alia Al-Sadek Had to Get Crafty

Monday, October 21, 2024

Today in style, self, culture, and power. The Cut October 21, 2024 NEW VANGUARD Maria Alia Al-Sadek Had to Get Crafty The Miu Miu–loving hijabi grew up in a Hollister-filled Alabama. She had no choice

The Ultimate Guide to Getting Bigger Muscles

Monday, October 21, 2024

Transform your muscles in six weeks Special Offer From Our Friends At Men's Health Get results in just six weeks! View in Browser Man doing bent over row with dumbbell Build Bigger Muscles in Just

Kim Kardashian’s Flipped ’90s Bob Is The Hottest Cut For Fall

Monday, October 21, 2024

Plus, Bella Hadid's 5 best looks, your week in astrology and tarot, your daily horoscope, & more. Oct. 21, 2024 Bustle Daily A framed portrait features two women smiling at the camera, dressed