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Hi, friends. I'm away from the internet for two weeks, taking a much-needed break. In my absence, I have a real treat for you: Each section of this newsletter is contributed by a different person whose own emails I love receiving. Think of it as a newsletter buffet. You're getting a little taste of each newsletter, and you have the option of going back for more—aka subscribing. Scroll to the bottom to find out more about all of these contributors. -Ann

This week by Dayo Olopade
Good news that Joe Biden picked Kamala Harris, a senator from California with parents from Jamaica and from India, to be his running mate. This is cool because she is not a man—and because no Black or Asian woman has ever been at the top of a ticket with a shot at winning (recommending the series Mrs. America if you haven't seen Shirley Chisholm in action). 

In the UK, where I live, all nonwhite people get lumped together in the category of "Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic" or BAME. It covers everyone from Caribbean Windrush descendants to partition-era Muslim migrants to the Brits of Hong Kong. It's a much-criticized shorthand—perhaps so generic it has lost meaning. Oddly, Harris might be the rare person to whom the catchall ambiguity of "bame" properly applies. (Stopped clocks are right sometimes.) Clearly we need to figure out how to showcase, not flatten, multiracial histories like hers. And maybe I've been under a rock but I'd love to see/hear/amplify examples of Asian x Black political coalition building, other than this werk from Hasan Minhaj. 

Now a small confession. I wrote a profile of Harris *ten years ago,* one of the first with national readership. The reporting holds up well but alas, my headline called her "the female Obama"—and I noted that she and the president shared a "greyhound physique." And then, reader, I described her outfit. I regret that this was not in the tradition of a subtle but revealing detail—like, say, MIA's famous truffle fries—but in the tradition of "it's sexist to care what lawmakers look like or what they are wearing." (I did this to Condoleezza Rice, too, mea culpa). I'm fessing up because recognizing our biases and failures is healthy. And, per this open letter from watchdog/activist group "We Have Her Back," everyone in the media needs to improve their baseline coverage of women in politics, and especially those from underrepresented groups. 

-Dayo Olopade

Nicole Zhu is reading
The importance of centering the cooking that happens in our institutions. A delightful look at transit chimes by chord interval. On grief and the silence that exists around immigrant families’ histories. What if we thought of emotional trauma the way we do physical trauma? “Leaving Twitter for Instagram was like moving to Los Angeles, only cheaper.” A beautiful essay on learning to swim and coming out. Pirates of the Caribbean is the ultimate girlhood fantasy. Deep dives into the history and evolution of the rom-com. The amazing work of one librarian who put together the internet’s most comprehensive archive of food history. Brit Bennett on collective responsibility and the intersection of the pandemic and protests.

-Nicole Zhu


A chart by Edith Zimmerman
Ann asked if I wanted to do part of her newsletter while she's off. OMG. It's hard to pick a single pie chart topic. Love? Beauty? Quarantine aesthetic? Covid romance? Money, freedom, books, fear? Thoughts about sports bras? i think I'll go with... PEACHES. Oh, are they rotten now? Ok. Why are they so good? When will they be ripe? Why don't I understand? Is anything as beautiful as a donut peach? Should I have two more?
-Edith Zimmerman

On a typical week, when I am not on vacation, this hand-drawn space is brought to you by paying members of this newsletter, who each contribute $5/year. If you're one of these people, thank you! If you're not, please consider joining them.

GIFspiration from R. Eric Thomas
GIF of Miss Piggy bending prison bars.
As the world's oldest living millennial, Miss Piggy has had a profound and lasting impact on every part of my life. Miss Piggy is my life coach, my fashion icon, the wild version of my spirit let loose in the world. I find myself revisiting this GIF from The Great Muppet Caper a lot lately. Sometimes it stands in for my desire to leave the house; sometimes it's about abolition prisons; and sometimes it's just the simple desire to push apart the margins of reality to make a little more room.

-R. Eric Thomas

Phillip Picardi endorses

Supporting Black trans activists. If you, too, have watched in sadness or pressed 'retweet' on yet another headline about a Black trans woman being murdered this year, please consider taking that action a step further by supporting Black, trans organizers working to help their own communities. These are the non-profits and social justice leaders who get overlooked by even the big-name LGBTQ+ organizations and major donors. 

 

We know that money can translate to power. In this case, we are hoping that money can translate to safety, stability, and the individual empowerment that comes with knowing you have a safe place to stay and a stable income to keep you afloat. So let's economically empower those leaders who know how to do it for themselves and, in turn, do it for their communities. 

  • If you’re a foodie, donate to: The Okra Project, an organization devoted to food stability for trans people of color. 

  • If you have a passion for abolishing the prison industrial complex and the police, donate to: The Trans Justice Funding Project.

  • If you want to work for housing justice, donate to: GLITS Inc., which is establishing safe housing for Black trans folks recently released from Riker's Island. 

  • If you’re a diehard feminist, donate to: The Solutions Not Punishments Collective (SNaPCo), where Toni-Michelle Williams is engaging in leadership training for Black trans women. 

  • If you’re an art or history buff, donate to: The Transgender District in San Francisco, the world's first ever trans cultural historical district, aimed at encouraging a new generation of trans artists, business owners, and preserving and elevating their history. 

I know we are all being asked for donations all the time! But I also know that, for too long, trans people have not been considered 'urgent' enough for our efforts and our activism. We should be doing better.


-Phillip Picardi

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Margot Harrington made the incredible animated image at the top! Margot is an artist and graphic designer who sends a weekly dispatch that features encouraging curiosities and delightful visual amusements centered around a theme. It has brightened up many a dreary, socially distant day for me. Sign up here.


Dayo Olopade's Two Nouns is a monthly email full of ideas and updates from a hyphenated lady, with a focus on tech & design & inclusion & migration & media & winning. Dayo often pulls together several strands of the news into one fresh, brilliant, cohesive analysis. I always feel smarter after reading her words. Read the archive and sign up here.

Nicole Zhu sends a newsletter every-other week with her thoughts on creativity, links to thinks to cook and watch, and the occasional interview. I'm a relatively recent subscriber and I'm already hooked. Subscribe here.

Edith Zimmerman is the brilliant mind and hand behind Drawing Links, which features nonfiction comics and fascinating finds. Fun fact: Edith was my original pie-chart editor at The Hairpin, way back in 2012. I've missed working with her and am hopelessly devoted to her image-based musings. Click to read and sign up.

R. Eric Thomas's newsletter, Here For It, features a weekly Sedaris-esque essay, a link to the ELLE.com roundup Eric Reads the News, plus a few random delights from the internet. It brings me joy every time it arrives. Click to read a sample and subscribe.

Phillip Picardi describes fruity as "a pandemic project that I started to supplant therapy while I found a way to get health insurance. It's sort of working." I describe it as essays and interviews that arrive in your inbox to complicate your understanding and provoke your empathy. Click for samples and to sign up

Maybe a better metaphor: This newsletter is a supergroup.
Forward it to a few of your favorite solo artists.



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