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Issue #308 - March 10, 2023
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In bloom. Image source: Joe Brainard via Blumenhaus Magazine 
 

Hi there,

Are you someone who likes surprises? Lately, I’ve been focusing on the moments where my expectations and reality didn’t match up in a good way: cut flowers lasting all week, packages arriving earlier than expected, canceled plans that unlock an extra night in. This week, Alisha shares skincare faves that only feel expensive, plus a delightful 3 Good Things from wellness writer Melanie Ehrenkranz. xoxo —Aliza Abarbanel, Executive Editor

Brunch = handled. Image source: King Arthur
 

This Week's Picks

Curated this week by Aliza

Pass the maple syrup: I have a theory that the secret to becoming a morning person might be buried in a towering stack of these unbelievably fluffy, Japanese soufflé pancakes from King Arthur, the true king of reliable recipes.

Highly relatable: What it's like trying to make friends as an adult.

"Text neck" is real: Ease muscle stiffness and alleviate all that tension with a do-it-anywhere stretch routine. Yes, I did this on the subway this week, and I fully plan on continuing to do so.

#CookForIran: An all-star lineup of chefs like Andy Baraghani and Nasim Alikhani are leading virtual cooking classes for Nowruz next week, raising awareness and donations for the ongoing women’s rights movement in Iran.

Group chat woes: A genius idea for planning a group trip (or just a Tuesday hang) when everyone in your life has a different schedule.

Top-shelf seltzer: My favorite afternoon treat lately is a can of juicy mango seltzer from Sanzo. Each can is based on a beloved Asian flavor, from lychee to calamansi, made with real fruit and no added sugar. One sip makes LaCroix taste like a scented marker.

Fave new follow: If exposed beams and conversation pits make your heart skip a beat, you’ll love all the drool-worthy interiors at Mid Mod Mood

Saturn in Pisces: Astrology lovers know that it’s been a big week in the stars, but that’s about all I understood about this current full moon/transit situation until I downloaded popular astrologer Chani Nichol’s app. It’s somehow more fun and more comprehensive than others I’ve tried, and there’s a code to unlock 30 days of premium for free: SATURN30.

 

3 Good Things with Melanie Ehrenkranz from Nessie Sightings

The wellness space can be a Wild West of claims and price points. Luckily we have writer Melanie Ehrenkranz, who cuts through the noise with Nessie Sightings, a weekly newsletter sharing approachable health and wellness recommendations and news. A former reporter at Gizmodo and Mic, Melanie shares insights without the ridiculous price tags and pseudoscience, and her recs below are equally refreshing.—Aliza 

  1. Microdosing chess: One of the first things I bought when my partner and I moved in together was a chess set made of clear resin that contains real plants. (I appreciate that the artist does not uproot plants or use protected species.) In the absence of long stretches of time (or attention spans) to sit down to a complete game, we’ll take small work breaks to make two or three moves each, playing a game over a few days to a week. It’s a nice moment of reconnection, and keeping a tally of wins on the fridge adds a playful, competitive edge. (I’m winning.)
  2. Commissioning art for yourself: As I’m typing this, I’m staring into the brushstrokes of a painting I commissioned through an artist I found on Instagram. I slid into her DMs, telling her colors I like to look at (pastel greens and pinks and oranges) flowers I like (birds of paradise), and that I wanted to feel calm and inspired in the room this painting would exist in. It hangs above my desk and when I look at it, I do feel calm and inspired. Also it’s a beautiful object that reminds me of a specific moment in my life, like a time capsule. I can’t recommend this enough. 
  3. Showing up to your friend’s place with a jar of pickles: At the beginning of the pandemic, I grew too many cucumbers. It got out of hand. So I started quick pickling. I made jars for my family, my friends, my neighbors, an old acquaintance who saw me post a picture of my pickles on Instagram and inquired “can I get some pickles?” It’s also a good exercise in learning what your loved ones like. Do they lean sweet? Spicy? Slices? Spears? Do they eat them straight out of the can or put them on a sandwich? If you don’t know how your besties like a pickle, hit 'em up. 
Follow Melanie on Instagram and Twitter, and subscribe to her newsletter Nessie Sightings for more of her writing.
 

The A List 🛒

GNI founder Alisha shares some of her favorite things to add to your cart right now. This week: skincare staples that won’t break the bank. 

La Roche Posay Hydrating Gentle Cleanser, $16 for 13 fl oz. 

An affordable French drugstore brand? CHIC. This cleanser is my daily favorite—it’s nourishing, won’t strip your face of oils, and provides a generous amount of product for the price point. A small pump washes off all my makeup, even stubborn eyeliner or mascara, and it also contains niacinamide to gently even out hyperpigmentation. And most importantly: It’s got no fragrance! Truly a pet peeve of mine when it comes to cleansers—there’s no need for it. (Btw, their astringent toner is great, too.)

Indie Lee Squalane Oil, $14 for .3 fl oz (or $38 for 1 fl oz)

I’ve been on the hunt for a face oil to use with my gua sha routine and I finally landed on this old standby of mine. I wanted something with simple ingredients that wouldn't cost an arm and a leg (looking at you, Vintner’s Daughter), contain fragrance, cause breakouts (I have acne-prone skin), or absorb too quickly into the skin (lest I be left tugging and stretching out my face vs. giving myself a gentle and relaxing facial massage). This oil feels nourishing and gives just the slip you need for gua sha, without feeling greasy.

The Snail Mucin CosRX, $22 for 3.4 fl oz

I’ve used this essence on and off for a few years now whenever I’m in need of a little hydration boost, or if I’m noticing dry patches on my skin. Made by a cult-favorite Korean skincare brand, it’s a soothing product using snail secretion that layers well after cleansing and before moisturizing. My skin always feels juicier and bouncier after using this.

Niche life goal: Have a bookshelf with a ladder. Image source: Midmod.mood 
        

This Week's Reads

How to Organize Your Books, According to People with Thousands of Them (Washington Post). People with libraries ranging from 300 to 3,000 (!) books share their displaying and organizing strategies.

Are You Okay or Are You an Eldest Daughter? (Refinery29). "Being an eldest daughter is like an unpaid internship for the rest of your life."

The Real Reason Eye Cream Is So Expensive (The Atlantic). Amanda Mull does the reporting we all need: Does eye cream do anything special, or is it just facial moisturizer in a smaller tub?

Everyone Messes Up. Here’s How to Say You’re Sorry (Vox). Inside the art of the good apology.

Life Is Easier With a Fake Assistant (The Cut). Testing the popular TikTok theory that pretending to be your own assistant is a cheat code for getting perks.

With New Legislation, You Can Expect More Recalls to Hit the Beauty Industry (Allure). Industry insiders break down a new law empowering the FDA to recall dangerous beauty products.

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