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Note from the Editor
Hi
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Each week, we talk about three things around here: how to unwind, take care, and make friends. But the reason we rest has never been clearer: it's so that we have the energy to stand up, take action, and support each other when the time comes.
This past Tuesday was National Voter Registration Day β a pressing reminder in a week that also included grieving Ruth Bader Ginsburg and the Breonna Taylor verdict. While an election cannot solve everything, it does provide us with a path, a voice, and a vote in a year when we so critically need those things. If, among all this, you've found yourself wondering how you can make the greatest impact during this election season, here are some tips to keep in mind over the next 39 days:
1. Make sure you're registered to vote. π³
All of a sudden everyone we know is moving. Maybe you moved this year too? These things affect your voter registration so no better time than now to check.
This will take you 20 seconds. Also, here's a list of voter registration deadlines by state and a calendar of key dates you should bookmark.
2. Step outside your social circles. π
Every single person has influence over the people in their lives. If you're having conversations in your close circle of friends or on social media, keep having them. But take stock: Who isn't on these channels? Where are they? How can you best reach them? If you're looking to push the needle among those who may not be in your immediate circles, you can certainly do that.
Make calls. Send texts. Write postcards. Volunteer with organizations like When We All Vote. Adopt a key swing state. You can often find ways to help through candidate websites.
3. Make a voting plan β and help others make one too. π
Here's how to make a voting plan β the most important steps are to:
β’ Make sure you're registered to vote (today!)
β’ Request an absentee ballot if you need one this year. Take note of any mail-in deadlines.
β’ Make sure you know where your polling location is if you're voting in-person
Bonus points if you volunteer to work the polls (if it's safe for you to do so!).
4. Look down-ballot. π
We have a hugely important presidential election this year, but also up for election are local positions, attorneys general, and senators who can potentially have an even bigger impact on your day-to-day life.
Block off time on your calendar this week to do independent research. OR if you have a group of trusted and civically engaged friends, divide and conquer researching local races and candidates and then have everyone come together to present their research during a Zoom gathering or in a joint doc.
5. Rest as needed. But don't stop. π΄
A friend recently said, "For the first time in my adult life, I remembered to take the day after Election Day off." And that is an incredibly valid thought! Now is the time to plan your rest and intentionally pencil it in if you have the option to do so. Allocating times when you'll rest will keep you focused and motivated in the weeks to come.
6. Take time to organize and help in other ways too. πͺ
The election is coming sooner that we think, and it's on each of us to not only get ourselves to the polls β but also to help get others there too.
One thing to keep in mind, though, is that voting is just the surface of civic engagement and community care. Here are some other ways you can provide additional help right now:
β’ Here's how you can help on the ground in Louisville
β’ Donate to your local mutual aid network
β’ March for Black lives in your area
β’ Keep contacting your representatives to share your viewpoints on issues that matter to you
See you at the polls,
The GNI Team
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weekly picks
our favorite recommendations of the week
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- A favorite new addition to my fall wardrobe.... π "I'm currently living in this Madewell VOTE T-shirt. I give it 5/5 stars for helping me stay focused and giving me an excuse to start conversations with strangers (from a distance) at the grocery store when they notice it." - Jenny, Partnerships Team
- What to do with all those apples... π This NYT apple cider doughnut recipe will make you want to go apple-picking immediately (even if it's not in the cards this year) and this apple sharlotka is the puffy apple cake you'll probably dip into for breakfast for at least a few days next week.
- My little trick for transitioning my home to fall... π» "I don't do a full seasonal swap-out of decorations but I do love to treat myself to flowers that set a seasonal mood. I picked up my first bouquet of dried flowers (it's very autumnal!) at a local farm last weekend, but Etsy has plenty too. I especially love this bouquet inspo from @hotsundayhome." - Katrina, Partnerships Team
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A ritual to ground you each morning... βοΈ "This week, on The Lounge, Casper ter Kuile (author of The Power of Ritual) helped us create a yearly ritual calendar. He explained that rituals are different from routines because they're traditions that ground us around personaI, seasonal, and cultural events or cycles. Now, I've been excitedly recording, tracking, and mapping out new rituals in this planner as a reminder to give myself things to look forward to right now." - Mary Anne, Community Team
- The pouch that finally replaced my Trader Joe's tote... π "Okay, here's the thing: I've been using my trusty TJ's canvas tote as a purse for the past six months. It's soft, practical, and has a pocket right where I need one. To help myself feel like a slightly more-together human, though, I recently bought this little purse from El Cholo's Kid, a Latinx-owned business based in California. It's perfect for my keys, wallet, and phone as I run out of the house, but I have a feeling a bigger one is in my future too." - Tyler, GNI Team
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The unexpected item that's making me feel super prepared for the day... π€ "My fashion choices have been pretty questionable in quarantine, and this one might be my most controversial yet. Recently, inspired by the convenience of mask chains, I decided to go all-in and buy a puka shell glasses chain too. Good news: Iβve managed to stay largely untangled when Iβm double chaining AND Iβm having fun channeling my truest inner grandmillennial along the way." - Olivia, GNI Team
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read/watch/listen
how we're spending time this weekend...
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"Reading is the key that opens doors to many good things in life. Reading shaped my dreams, and more reading helped me make my dreams come true." - Ruth Bader Ginsburg
What's On Our Minds: π§
This Isn't Justice | The Cut
Healing the Whole Family | The New York Times
The Political Power of Asian American Voters | Zora
Ruth Bader Ginsburg: The Great Equalizer | The New Yorker
How to Track Your Ballot Like a UPS Package | Washington Post
How to Deal With a Friendship Quiet Season | The New York Times
The Book We're Reading: π
Remember this piece on millennial burnout that took the internet by storm last January? If you read it β and felt it was a story all too familiar, you'll love that its writer, Anne Helen Petersen, wrote a whole book on the matter. Just released this week, Can't Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation is the cultural critique we need to chart a less-exhausted path forward, even within a system that may not fully support that.
What We're Watching: πΊ
"Last weekend, to reinvigorate myself for election season, I watched Knock Down the House and now I'm curious if anyone else has any favorite political documentaries. If so, hit reply because I'd love to hear them." - Jenny, GNI Team
What We're Listening To: π§
This episode of The Washington Post's Sincerely, Michelle podcast β which examines the intersection of race and economics β is about a columnist at The Post who recently reached out to her editor from 25 years ago to ask him about the time he said he hired her because sheβs Black. The story takes a couple surprising turns, and it ends up being about what it feels like to be on the inside of affirmative action. Listen to this if you've ever carried the burden of self-doubt that comes with wondering if you were a βdiversity hire.β
What's Making Us Smile: π
Leave it to a very exciting book announcement to deliver some joy this week. You know Ashley C. Ford as an always-sharp podcast host and writer (and maybe you remember her from this GNI interview from last year?). Good news: Her highly anticipated memoir, "Somebody's Daughter" officially has a release date for next June. Do future-you a favor: Pre-order it from your local bookstore now so it lands in your hands as soon as it's out.
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