Opinionated Edition: My daughter’s tears + historic firsts

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My Daughter’s Tears

 

My daughter’s resting emotional thermostat is set at “happy.” I don’t know where she got that, but it’s been that way since she was a giggling baby.

Which is why it stays with me when she cries. And for me, the past four years have been framed by her tears:

Her tears during the election of 2016, when she called me, asking how we could elect someone as president who had bragged about being able to grab women by the [unprintable word].

Her tears of frustration one night during the pandemic, after yet another long, long day on Zoom calls at her new job, when quarantine was wearing thin.

Her tears a week ago today, after she’d returned from working at the polls and it looked like our country was going to re-elect said [unprintable word] grabber.

And then her tears this weekend, when Kamala Harris became the first woman, the first Black person, the first Indian American vice president-elect. My daughter wiped her tears and joined the spontaneous, hours-long dance party that erupted in the streets. (So did I.)

Chills. Just … chills.

But there’s so much hurt in our country. And I don’t claim to fully understand all of the causes, but the wealth and opportunity disparities in this country are at historic levels — and the disparities have been growing regardless of what’s going on in the economy. A strong economy: the wealth gap grows. A subprime mortgage market crash: the wealth gap grows. A pandemic: the wealth gap grows.

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A tweet by Ashley Nicole Black that says, “Well, if you can’t pronounce her name, you can just call her ‘Madame Vice President.’”

By the Numbers: Historic firsts

Women+ smashed records and made history last week. A few notable firsts:

The 2021 Congress will have the most women ever, with at least 135.

The 2021 House will have 23 Black women representatives — a new record.

32 Republican women will serve in Congress, also a new record.

Marilyn Strickland became the first Korean American woman elected to the US Congress and the first Black person to represent Washington State.

In Delaware, Sarah McBride made history as the first transgender woman elected to a state senate.

In Kansas, Stephanie Byers became the first BIPOC trans woman elected to a state legislature.

In Oklahoma, Mauree Turner became the first gender non-binary person elected to a state legislature (and the first Muslim to be elected to the legislature in the state).

Dr. Jill Biden will be the first First Lady with a full-time job outside the White House.

And Kamala Harris is set to become “the highest-ranking woman in the nation’s 244-year history.”

“To the children of our country, regardless of your gender, our country has sent you a clear message: Dream with ambition, lead with conviction, and see yourself in a way that others might not see you, simply because they’ve never seen it before. And we will applaud you every step of the way.”

– Vice President-Elect Kamala Harris

What we’re reading this week

“It is our job as citizens to make Harris’ vice presidency count. That means that we must be willing to fiercely defend her in the face of racist and sexist attacks that impede her ability to do her work, and we must be willing to remind her that she works for us.” Brittney Cooper on what America owes to the new leadership.

Retail work is the most common job in America. The majority of retail workers are women. And almost 400,000 retail jobs were lost and haven’t been recovered since the pandemic started.

The Oxford English Dictionary made updates to its definition of the word “woman,” including changing the definition to say that a woman can be “a person’s wife, girlfriend, or female lover” (instead of just “a man’s”). But it still lists “bitch” as a synonym for “woman,” though it’s now labeled “derogatory.” (Not good enough, OED.)

Ruth Reck conducted breakthrough research on climate change in the 1960s. Her employer, General Motors, may have downplayed her findings on global warming because of her gender.

RIP to longtime “Jeopardy!” host Alex Trebek, who repeatedly suggested women when asked about potential successors, including CNN Senior Legal Analyst Laura Coates.

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