Dense Discovery - 145 / The phases that make you you

We think we understand the rules when we become adults, but what we really experience is a narrowing of the imagination.

– David Lynch

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A friend of mine recently admitted that he’s currently into really trashy comedies. “10% or below on Rotten Tomatoes!” Another friend confided in me that she’s in a strict non-committal phase. “No long-term partners, jobs or decisions of any kind for the rest of the year!”

Both of them use a little loophole to avoid judgement. By stating that they are going through a temporary period of behaviour change, they ‘get away’ with doing things that may seem out-of-character to people around them. It’s a social license for change that I think we should use a lot more freely.

Lots of people have strong opinions on the nebulous concept of ‘work/life balance’. If you burn the midnight oil, you’re a slave to your work! But if you don’t get up every morning with a spring in your step to pursue your passion, then you’re a slacker! The reality is that both are true for most of us.

Work can be bliss, when my brain is bursting with ideas and my body is buzzing to get them out. Fifteen hours at work? Not enough! At other times I can’t imagine anything more pathetic and dehumanising than sitting on a desk tapping buttons until the sun goes down. That’s me (and probably you) in different phases of life.

This sounds pretty obvious, I know, but I think we often forget to acknowledge that so much of what we experience happens in temporary phases (that, by the way, often beget each other). Sometimes these phases don’t have clear-cut beginnings and endings. Sometimes they overlap. Sometimes we can plan for them, and sometimes they are determined by factors outside our control.

Instead of applying fixed labels, it’s useful to think of life as an accumulation of different phases. This minor perspective shift allows us to be less absolutist and judgy – about ourselves and others. It gives us permission to change, to be different people at different times.

So whether it’s shitty movies, short-term relationships or all-nighters at work, they don’t define who we are but who we want/need to be at a particular moment. – Kai

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A quote worth repeating:

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