Forward Thinking Media - No One Actually Cares
I remember at the tail end of my last company, I didn’t want to shut it down because some smart people were starting to “believe” in me. For example, I had a writing marketplace and a Harvard grad was entertaining the idea of writing for us. In addition, a VC in the Rough Draft Ventures program also wanted to work for us on a volunteer basis. I thought I was a recruiting god. Clearly, if I was attracting talent like Harvard alum and Rough Draft Fellows, I was onto something right? And it would be wrong of me to shut down something that was starting to get traction, right? Wrong. These people didn’t actually care. They were throwing positive signals at me in case I became the next Google, yet I mistook the signals for leaps of trust and commitment. After I shut the company down, I never heard from them again. I saw them as traction in my biased brain, yet when times got hard, they were nowhere to be found. The explanation for this is the search for social status…. People care about knowing the founder before they became THE founder. They care about being a first 100 user of the hottest app, not the hottest flop. But since there’s so many founders that flame out, the consensus behavior among the tech community is to just be nice to everyone. To make every founder think they’re onto something because out of the thousands out there, the few that actually make it will remember the people who cheered them on. The founders will think it was genuine, but it was really just a social capital bet. This isn’t to say that founders don’t have real cheerleaders out there. Investors, advisors, and friends of the company can move mountains for a founder and the progress of a startup. I don’t know what I would do without my crew of supporters. It’s just outside of that crew, there are a mob of leeches, or as I like to call them, status seeking monkeys. People that want me to win enough to help improve their social status in case I do, but not enough to actually help me in any capacity get to that goal. These people provide a false sense of confidence & support that creates a reality distortion field for a founder that makes them think more people are in their corner than actually are. For a newer founder, this is dangerous. It’s a minefield out there. Find people in your corner. Hold them tight. And forget what anyone else says about you, because it’s probably more for them than it is for you. This is how you win the mental game of the pre-seed startup arena. And remember, no one actually cares. If you liked this post from Mat Sherman's Newsletter, why not share it? |
Older messages
Surviving Mediocrity
Thursday, December 2, 2021
The First Boss of The Startup Game
Web3 is a Tactic
Sunday, November 28, 2021
How founders should evaluate web3
Scouting Matt Shumer, Cofounder/CEO of OthersideAI
Friday, November 19, 2021
Seedscout Case Study #2
Scouting Matt Redler, Cofounder/CEO of Panther
Tuesday, November 9, 2021
Seedscout Case Study #1
Just Make It Easy
Wednesday, October 6, 2021
How to get what you want from busy people
You Might Also Like
OpenAI loses its voice
Tuesday, May 21, 2024
The company hasn't been the same since Sam Altman's return — and its treatment of Scarlett Johansson should worry everyone Platformer Platformer OpenAI loses its voice By Casey Newton • 20 May
#180 | Spatial Computing, Energy Dilemma, AI Spending Patterns, & more
Monday, May 20, 2024
May 13–20th | Insights from Equal, Madrona, Bessemer, Greylock, Chamath, and others ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏
Chatting With Her - The ChatGPT App on Mac
Monday, May 20, 2024
Tomasz Tunguz Venture Capitalist If you were forwarded this newsletter, and you'd like to receive it in the future, subscribe here. Chatting With Her - The ChatGPT App on Mac For the past few
📂 How to test new pricing (and migrate legacy pricing)
Monday, May 20, 2024
Today's newsletter is proudly supported by xFusion 🎉 A few years ago I referred one of my consulting clients, SavvyCal, to xFusion to get help with customer support. And after seeing
When to Raise a Series A? 16 Silicon Valley Startups Raised $622.9M Last Week
Monday, May 20, 2024
💰 Sigma Computing Raised $200M Series D 💰 Top Universities For Funded Founders 🔢 Social Capital Fund Return (2011-2023) 👑 Palmer Luckey Wants to Be Silicon Valley's War King ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏
🦄 3D bioprinting for customizable tissue
Monday, May 20, 2024
FoldInk is building material, called bioinks, which are used to print real tissue.
NEW: state of AI
Monday, May 20, 2024
funding and deal size jumps, M&A exits drop, and six new unicorns join the club The State of AI Take a deeper look Hi there, Our newest State of AI Report is out. Spoiler: AI funding hit a 4-
How the customized learning pathway works
Monday, May 20, 2024
This is life-changing Hi , Many are asking how the customized learning pathway inside foundr+ works so I wanted to share. Here's how it works: Initial Assessment: When you first log in, you'll
April 2024 updates, new product!
Monday, May 20, 2024
Traveled to Bali and Sydney, some updates on Typing Mind, and a new product. ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏
Navigating hurdles as a migrant founder
Monday, May 20, 2024
Plus: Europe's first Black solo GP and the plant-based meat startup aiming for profitability View in browser Sponsor Card - Flagship (44)-2 Good morning there, First-generation migrants are a tough