She Dares To Say - #40: Considering My Crushes – No. 01
#40: Considering My Crushes – No. 01Peter Pan, Damon Albarn, Billy Kennedy, Ernst Robinson and US President Bill ClintonThis content is not behind a paywall, but since it takes time to create and upload each piece, do please consider becoming a paid subscriber of ‘She Dares to Say’ (especially if this project is something that you value, and you have the means to do so), which is either billed monthly at £3.79 or annually at £34.99. If you would prefer to make a one-off donation, feel free to send a contribution via PayPal. You can also show your enjoyment without spending £££, by liking, commenting or sharing 😃 [Image description: Text ‘Considering My Crushes No. 01’ on a lilac background] [Image description: Almaz’s earliest crushes; clockwise: Damon Albarn, Blur’s frontman, Billy Kennedy from Aussie soap ‘Neighbours’, Peter Pan from the 1990s animated kids TV show ‘Peter Pan & the Pirates’, US President Bill Clinton and Ernst Robinson from the 1960s Disney live-action film ‘Swiss Family Robinson’] So let me unpack some of this… During the last couple of years, I’ve been running a sexuality survey and the question that generates the richest answers is no. 14: “Is there anything you can remember that sparked your sexual / intimate desires, e.g. a certain person / a film / a song / an advert?” Seeing the wonderfully broad range of sparks that respondents have listed has meant that I have a much keener awareness of my own earliest juicy memories. As a very young child during the 90s, I’d watch the animated kid’s show Peter Pan & the Pirates (most of the episodes are actually up on YouTube) on the TV and felt like I wanted to hang out with Peter Pan, catch his attention and be his sick-kick-cum-love-interest. I was ‘attracted’ to his spontaneity and enthusiasm for adventures and also to his boldness in the face of the tyrannical Captain Hook. During the summer of 1997 when I was eight, I spent a lot of time glued to the TV in the wake of my youngest sister’s birth. My viewing habits were sometimes unsupervised because my parents were busy with the new baby, so I was catching bits of everything, not only children’s cartoons but Top of the Pops, soap operas, and news bulletins, too. At school, we’d gossip excitedly about all the gross details. The idea that the most powerful man in the world had demanded that an attractive young women suck his penis was beyond titillating for me and my peers. At the time, we were going through a prolonged phase where breaktimes had become a competitive forum in which we’d all run around the playground loudly and frenetically listing all the people that we fancied (low-stakes), would kiss (high-stakes), or ‘do it’ with (outrageous!) once we were grown-up. The names of both the famous and people we knew personally – including teaching assistants and classmates’ older siblings – would be blurted out to a scandalised audience of peers. So, since ‘doing it’ was what we thought about ALL the time, I’d imagine the Clinton–Lewinsky scene in my head often, replacing Lewinsky for myself. [Image description: promo banner for Almaz’s Developing Sexual Expression and understanding intimacy workshops with dates struck through] Due to unforeseen circumstances, the remaining events in this online series have now been cancelled. Attendees will see their tickets refunded in the next couple of days. If there’s enough interest, I’ll re-schedule online workshops 2, 3 and 4, so please get in touch via email to let me know if this is something that you guys would like. [Image description: promo banner for Almaz’s Developing Sexual Expression and understanding intimacy workshops] And if you’d like to book me for an in-person event like a hen party or baby shower, or as a fun interlude at a sex ed/sensuality event, do get in touch via email. All workshop participants will receive a printable PDF companion workbook with tips and exercises to try out at home. Here’s a link to a previous mailout where I described the raucous fun we had at a hen party where I ran the Improving Intimacy workshop for a group of women: [Image description: Text ‘POSTSCRIPT’] The ‘POSTSCRIPT’ segment for paid subscribers will drop on Wednesday 22 November and will include more specifics about why I fancied the people mentioned above. To receive this extra mailout you’ll need to upgrade to a paid subscription, which is either billed monthly at £3.79, or annually at £34.99. [Image description: Text ‘PRODUCED BY’] Available for commissions. Info via almazohene.com/contact-faqs. This content is not behind a paywall, but since it takes time to create and upload each piece, do please consider becoming a paid subscriber of ‘She Dares to Say’ (especially if this project is something that you value, and you have the means to do so), which is either billed monthly at £3.79 or annually at £34.99. If you would prefer to make a one-off donation, feel free to send a contribution via PayPal. You can also show your enjoyment without spending £££, by liking, commenting or sharing 😃 You're currently a free subscriber to She Dares To Say. For the full experience, upgrade your subscription. |
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