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Can you believe it’s already holiday time? Absurd.

Somehow I’ve created a tradition of doing an annual gift guide (this is my fourth year in a row), so here we go! 🎄🎅🕎

The list below is a combination of practical and fun ideas. As in my newsletter, I’m indexing on useful, timeless, and high-quality things. I’ve included products I regularly use and love, products my podcast guests have recommended (courtesy of super-fan Borko 👏), cute shit my wife suggested, and a few things I’ve recently discovered from y’all on these X and LinkedIn threads. I’m not making any money off anything here, and there are no affiliate fees on any of these links. For the couple of products where I have a connection (i.e. I’m a tiny angel investor or they’ve sponsored the podcast in the past), I note that with an asterisk (*).

Enjoy, and happy holidays!

P.S. Don’t sleep on my swag store for that special PM or growth friend in your life!

Household

1. Aarke stainless-steel hot water kettle: Plastic-free, beautiful, and fast. I love it.

2. HOTO portable tire inflator: You’ll never want to inflate your bike tires, car tires, or balls any other way. HOTO has all kinds of other cool stuff too. [Thanks, Anirudh, for the tip.]

3. Corrugated-cardboard cutter: Makes breaking down those Amazon boxes a breeze. It’s one of those small things that once you try it, you’ll want to give one to everyone you know. Somebody on Twitter recommended this to me (I forget who 😬), and now I can’t stop recommending it.

4. Glerups slippers: My favorite slippers. Cozy, cute, and durable. I buy extra pairs for when visitors come over. These are also loved by both Wirecutter and Tim Ferriss. Not cheap, but they last.

5. Quarterly ceramic cup club: From Bay Area artist Julie Cloutier. Receive four unique handmade ceramic mugs over the course of a year. [Thanks for the tip, Rebecca!]

6. Talbot and Yoon Goober Candle: Delightful on any bookshelf. This other candle is also great.

Gadgets

1. Teenage Engineering choir: “Wooden dolls made to serenade you with a repertoire of choral classics as well as perform your own original compositions through MIDI over BLE. Each member has their own characteristic vocal range. Individually one can sing a dynamic solo, together they perform an immersive a cappella concert.” Not cheap, but so cool.

2. Daylight*: Kindle meets iPad meets laptop. Elegant and practical.

3. Nimbot wireless label maker: Print quick labels from your phone. For home organization, food containers, keeping track of documents, and so on. [Thanks for the tip, Laurence Molloy!]

4. Aura frames: A beautiful smart digital picture frame. Easy to update the photos using your phone. A perfect gift for grandparents.

5. Elgato Stream Deck Neo: Originally designed for Twitch streamers but so handy for launching my favorite apps, controlling speaker volume, and adjusting lights. There’s also a smaller version, a larger version, and a very large version.

4. Shure MV7 USB mic: A nice gift for that friend who’s thinking about starting a podcast—or is stuck on Zoom calls all day. It sounds great and works with USB. This was my first mic; I upgraded to the XLR version just last month, but that’s only because I do a podcast as a job now.

5. Anker Prime 100W USB C charger: Best and most versatile portable charger I’ve found. Fast charging for your laptop, iPhone, iPad, or whatever else, in a super-compact form. This Anker USB C portable charger, 3-in-1 is also awesome for on-the-go power, with built-in cord and display of how much power remains. [Thanks for the tip, Brent Brookler!]

6. Ray-Ban Meta smart glasses: Feels like this platform will become a big deal in the coming years. You can get these as sunglasses, prescription glasses, or just clear lenses.

My wife’s recommendations

I sent a draft of this list to my wife and she said, “You need more cute shit”—so behold, some cute shit.

1. Pigeon Toe tumbler: Cozy, cute cups for tea or coffee.

2. Bathing Culture Cosmic Rainbow hand towel: For the friend whose bathroom only has soggy bath towels to dry your hands on.

3. Studio Inko cutting boards: For the friend who has a display cutting board and a cutting-cutting board.

4. Secondhand Heath Ceramics: The Bay Area’s favorite ceramics, at a discount.

5. Public Goods hand soap and refill set: For the grandma who waters down her hand soap.

6. Everyday Oil: For your essential-oils friend.

7. East Fork x Field Notes: The Dreamers’ Bundle: An Asheville, N.C.–based company donating their Black Friday sales to disaster relief.

8. “You’ll Think of Something” camp flag: For your artist friend who is out of ideas.

9. Esqueleto gift card: For your cute-shit-loving partner ;-)

10. Segundo Madre tea towels: 100% linen, Oeko-Tex-certified, woven in a mill that runs on green energy.

11. Franca color-block pillar vase: For the friend who puts fresh flowers in a Nalgene.

12. “Try not to lose it” keychain: “A useful message for keys but also for everyone.”

13. Whimsical art

    1. “It’s a Miracle We Ever Met” by Hallie Bateman

    2. “Hobbies” by Hiller Goodspeed

    3. “Advice from the Beatles” by Michelle Rial (my wife!)

    4. Custom song painting by Kristin Texeira

    5. “Things Will Work Out” by Carissa Potter (also comes in card form)

    6. La Slow Galerie (quirky original art, prints that aren’t from the poster club)

14. Books

    1. Commune: Made in California: For friends with an empty coffee table.

    2. The Art Book for Children: I learned a lot myself from this kids’ art book.

    3. The Creative Act by Rick Rubin: Everyone loves this book.

Health and wellness

1. Cocofloss: Once you go Cocofloss, you won’t go back. The most luxurious floss you’ve ever tried. Feels good and tastes good. A great stocking stuffer.

2. WAOAW sleep mask: Will change your sleep, and thus your life. My wife and I both wear these to sleep every night, and it feels crazy to sleep without one. This has been a staple of my gift guides, and you’d be shocked how many times I’ve heard from readers that this one tip has been the most helpful thing they’ve read in my newsletter (🤣😭).

3. JOCO Flask Velvet Grip or Owala FreeSip insulated stainless-steel water bottle: I’m still looking for the perfect water bottle (e.g. straw and spout, no plastic, fits in a cup holder), but these are my two favorites right now. My wife loves the Klean Kanteen insulated water bottle.

4. Malin + Goetz shampoo and body wash: A great gift for that guy in your life still using the 2-in-1 shampoo and body wash.

5. America the Beautiful National Parks pass: Give the gift of nature. For people over age 62, the pass is good for life. [Thanks for the tip, Helen!]

Kids’ stuff

1. Owala Kids insulated stainless-steel tumbler: My favorite cup for our toddler.

2. Uncle Goose wooden alphabet blocks: The cutest friggin’ blocks. The sides include letters, numbers, and animals. And they feel really nice in your hand.

3. Animals by Ingela P. Arrhenius: Because it’s large (almost two feet tall), it’s super-cute when toddlers carry this around. [Thanks for the tip, Vanessa!]

4. Ditty Bird musical books for toddlers: Our kid loves these little music books. So many varieties. These are great too.

5. Noble organic utility suit: Matching jumpsuits for you and your kids. Cuteness overload.

6. Dreamegg portable sound machine: My favorite portable sound machine. The shushing sound is 👌.

7. Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges: A podcast guest (Joe Hudson) recommended this book, and it’s become my favorite parenting book that I recommend to everyone.

8. “Friend” baby onesie: Get one for your baby’s friends. Created by podcast guest Jessica Hische.

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9. “Love Your Mother” ringer tee: Melt your wife or mom’s heart.

10. Honest Company organic cotton onesies: These have become our go-to kid pj’s. Lots of different patterns.

11. Classic wooden play kitchen: The easiest, most nontoxic way to get the kitchen of your dreams.

Nutrition

1. Maui Nui venison stick*: 10 grams of protein in a delicious sugar-free, gluten-free meat stick. Makes a great snack I can throw in my backpack, and helps me get closer to my daily protein goal.

2. Magic Mind mental performance gummies*: I’ve been a big fan of Magic Mind for a while, but I’ve now completely switched to these gummies they just launched. I take some before every podcast episode and when I need to get some serious work done.

3. Vital Proteins collagen peptides: Huberman convinced me that taking collagen peptides daily was worth doing, so it’s now a daily habit. Goes well with LMNT.

Meaningful gift subscriptions

1. Kindle Unlimited: Give the gift of reading.

2. Future*: Give the gift of workout accountability. (Use this link to get a month free.)

3. AllTrails: Give the gift of hiking.

4. Duolingo: Give the gift of learning a new language.

5. Happier or Waking Up: Give the gift of meditation.

6. ChatGPT/Claude/Perplexity: Give the gift of AI. (These don’t have gift options, so giving them isn’t as easy as the above. But worth it.)

Don’t own yet but looks cool

1. Matic floor cleaning robot: A futuristic robot vacuum and mop with Tesla-FSD-level intelligence. Quiet, private, and good with kids and pets.

2. Bird Buddy smart bird feeder: AI-powered smart bird feeder. Captures photos and videos of local birds as they visit 🐦.

3. Brick: A device that temporarily removes distracting apps (and their notifications) from your phone.

4. Wildly Virgin olive oil: Small-batch extra-virgin olive oil from Portugal, by a family who have been making it for generations, harvesting by hand. Created by two product people who moved to Portugal to help more people experience what real olive oil tastes like.

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Remembering Enrique Allen

Finally, a gift that’s close to my heart: A dear friend, Enrique Allen, passed away last week from an aggressive form of cancer. He was the best of us; the strongest, happiest, most generous person I have known. Warm, kind, enthusiastic, genuine, passionate about the environment—he’s an inspiration to me for how to live a good life.

In the spirit of his generosity and dedication to personal growth, if you’d like to give me a gift, his family is raising money for his son’s 529 plan college education. If even 10% of those who see this put $10 toward it, we’d make a life-changing dent in his son’s life.

Alternatively, you can help with child care, food, funeral costs, and life stuff by Venmoing his wife, @MajoMolfino ❤️

I’m going to match donations up to $10,000. Just mention in the memo/comments that you’re coming from this newsletter.

Hug your friends and family really tight this holiday season 🙏

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Sincerely,

Lenny 👋