The Single Supplement - The Single Supplement returns
Welcome to The Single Supplement, a newsletter exploring the highs and lows of the single experience. This newsletter relies on the support of paying subscribers. If you enjoy this newsletter, please consider subscribing! I’m back! I know, I know, it’s about damn time. For those who have been waiting, thank you so much for your patience. The last six months have been very full on and I just wasn’t able to devote any head space or time to my precious newsletter. To all the new subscribers, welcome! I’m so happy you are here. As it has been a while, I wanted to firstly do a little introduction or reintroduction depending on how long you have been signed up. The next two newsletters will be a nice juicy personal essay and a lovely guest piece. I have also added below a bit about what you can expect going forward. Under this are some thoughts and recommendations and other bits and bobs. For those who don’t know, I launched this newsletter on my 35th birthday in October 2019. I was really fed up with the content out there for single women at the time which did not reflect my life and made me feel quite depressed and isolated and I thought I may as well take matters into my own hands and launch something to fill the void. I didn’t know what to expect and it’s been an amazing journey since I first hit send. The Single Supplement is regularly featured in national and international news publications and has even won an award. I’ve also been on the national radio three times now. Most recently I was on the Jeremy Vine show on BBC Radio 2 (you can listen here at 33 minutes in) and on Woman’s Hour on BBC Radio 4 (you can listen in here from 21 minutes in). Both times I was talking about the cost of being single. There are almost 11,000 readers and more than 2,300 members over on Facebook. More and more people sign up everyday which is incredible to me. I am so grateful to each everyone one of you. This newsletter wouldn’t be what it is without you. Thanks for being here. I wish we could all have a group hug like this: A note on who the newsletter is forAlthough originally solely for single women, I noticed men signing up and decided to welcome all genders here and to the accompanying Facebook group. Having said that, given I’m a woman – a cis-woman at that – and the vast majority of readers are also women, the content will be geared towards them, unapologetically. However, should any male readers want to set up newsletters, podcasts or Facebook groups, I will gladly shout about them for you as I do believe there is a gap for a supportive, inclusive community of single men who aren’t Andrew Tate fans. Do get in touch if you decide to do this or know anyone who has launched something I should promote. Readers are also from all over the world, quite literally. This is amazing to me and you’re all very welcome here. I do try and include articles and podcasts that are relevant to all but sometimes it will be UK-centric because I live here. If you see things you think I should be shouting about in your country, please do reply to this newsletter and let me know of any great newsletters, podcasts, magazine/newspaper columns I might not know about (Disclaimer, I already know and love Shani Silver and Bella De Paulo so no need to tell me about them). What to expectGoing forwards free subscribers can expect:
Meanwhile, paying subscribers can expect:
Thought of the weekInspired by this agony aunt column by Dolly Alderton (Dear Dolly: ‘I’m 32 and love being single, but I feel guilty’), I have been pondering guilt and why some single people feel it when they are OK or even loving being on their own. The writer of the problem told Dolly: “I’m 32 years old and, in a world full of married friends, I find I am happiest being single, but I feel guilty about it.” I can’t say guilt has ever come into it for me so was really interested to read this problem that someone wrote to Dolly about. I wish they’d expanded on what they meant by that. I guess for me sometimes I do feel it a bit when I think of my parents but not in general. Has anyone else felt guilty for enjoying being single? I would love to know. Email me! Song of the weekCongrats to Lizzo who just won a grammy for this banger! Laugh of the weekThings you should check out
About meFor those who don’t know, I’m Nicola Slawson, a freelance journalist, writer and public speaker who lives in Shropshire, UK. If you particularly liked this edition, you can buy me a coffee, here’s the link to my Ko-Fi page. Follow me on Instagram and Twitter. Did someone forward The Single Supplement to you? Sign up here. You're currently a free subscriber to The Single Supplement. For the full experience, upgrade your subscription. |
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I felt invisible as a single woman in London so I moved to a totally new town (by Tola Fisher)
Tuesday, October 4, 2022
Today is my 38th birthday. That also means that this newsletter is officially three years old. I sent my first newsletter out on my 35th birthday and wrote about being OK with waking up alone (check
You might be single during this crisis, but you're not alone (By Emily Morris)
Tuesday, September 6, 2022
Hello all, Long time no see! My spontaneous summer break ended up being a lot longer than intended and I've really missed writing to you. Thanks so much to everyone who has checked in with me and
The unexpected romance of attending a wedding alone (By Francesca Specter)
Sunday, May 8, 2022
Happy Sunday (just about!) Today I have a guest piece for you from Francesca Specter who is the founder of the Alonement platform which I have featured before. This guest piece was first published on
The joy of making new friends (incl. an extract from Unattached: Essays on Singlehood)
Sunday, April 24, 2022
Happy Sunday! Today I'm sharing an extract from my essay in Unattached: Essays on Singlehood, which was published in February. I've been meaning to do this for a few months but I didn't
'Society won’t agree with me, but I think I have it all': Mollie Quirk on being single her whole life
Monday, April 4, 2022
I have a guest piece for you today! I was going to do a catch up post as I've had quite a few new subscribers since I appeared on BBC Radio 2 but I've had this piece on hold for a couple of
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